Day #7: Weekly Review (And “Nice Guy” Syndrome Video)
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Week 1 Video : No More “Mr. Nice Guy”
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At the end of every week you get a short little video that gives you another “Golden Nugget” of game.
At the end of every week will be a review of that week’s content.
It’ll help consolidate what you just learned.
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Day 1: The Battle for Your Inbox Attention
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Read each email (lesson) as it comes in.
If there is something to do- do it..
The archive the email in the special mailbox folder you created.
Remember, if you miss a day, a link to the previous day’s lesson is at the bottom of every lesson.
Get 7 of My Most Essential Programs for the price of one. (limited new student discount)
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Day 2: Women Come to You
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The 31 Days to Better Game strategy is to make “easy” for you to get hot women.
Your new mindset is “how can I make this easy like cherry pie?”
And one of the first “mindset” shifts you need to make is to realize bars and clubs are the HARDEST place to meet women.
Start thinking outside of the box. (review Day 2)
Bonus Technique: “The Sexual Ladder”
Here is an amazing demonstration video where you learn a word-for-word way to being verbally escalating with a girl.
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Day 3: The “Inner Game” of Getting Girls
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You are 100% responsible for making it happen.
No one is going to come and hand you a girlfriend or a woman to have sex with.
Confidence is merely “less fear.”
And the easiest way to lose your fear is to do it enough times.
You don’t “wait” for confidence to come to you. You go out there and get it. You get it by saying you’re going to do something. And doing it. (review Day 3)
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Day 4: No More “Mr. Nice Guy”
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In the world of dating “nice guys” finish last.
You need a little bit of the bad boy quality.
Eliminate nice guy behavior like doing things you don’t want to do. Blindly agreeing with girls. Trying too hard to impress them. And acting “needy.”
You should become fun, sexually exciting, and a challenge. (review Day 4)
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Day 5: How to be “Wanted” by Women
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Attraction is “counter intuitive.”
What girls say that they want is very rarely what they really want.
The easiest way to get a girl interested in you is to appear to be “in demand.”
Women have “make up my mind for me” syndrome. And look to see who other girls are dating to decide who they should date. (review Day 5)
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Day 6: The #1 Rule of Female Attraction
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The easiest way to get a woman attracted to you is to appear to be “wanted” by other women.
There are some secret sauce strategies I call “Crowd Control” that ‘trick’ a woman into thinking she has competition for your attention. Of course it’s always better if its actually true. But you’ve got to start somewhere 🙂
These include strategic use of pictures, Facebook, text messaging, and guarding your time. (review Day 6)
Make it Happen
Bobby Rio
P.S. This week coming up we get into tactics and strategies for flirting with women.
If you haven’t already, review the Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet.
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You want the girl to be obsessed with you walk away and show her you can interact with other girls. Make sure she sees you hanging out with other woman. Doesn’t mean you want to fuck other girls, but keep socializing with other woman while she is not with you. She get upset and you win. But never ever get mad or insult her because she wasn’t talking to you or wants to hang out any more. Be sure to respect her at all times.
One thing I wasn’t clear on: where I should I apply these lessons? You said bars and clubs are no good, what places are good?
Only one week into the program, using what I’ve learned so far, has resulted in 3 women all wanting my attention. I just met another for ice cream…about an hour of “garbage time” invested and the next date is a done deal!
I think all the negative comments get deleted from the post.
I’ve got a supermodel at home…she’s horny, naked, and waiting for me to fuck her senseless. Its gonna be fun putting out this sort of attitude andd vibe be to the attractive and hot women I want. Thanks Bobby!
Thanks a million Bobby.
I can’t tell you how vital this information is to the game and to success. I am informed on a different level after the first week. I am really looking forward to the rest of the emails in the total 31 days. Women don’t make it easy and these are true shortcuts to become more successful getting more dates. The funny thing is once you know all of these things it naturally becomes easier. I am always keeping in mind of counter intuitive thoughts and just trying to get in that head space to succeed with confidence. The comments that everyone have left along with the video have been good as well, thanks all.
Thanks again,
Chris
Interesting that I’ve never heard these explanations before but they do make sense now. A couple observations…1. If a guy wants to commit to one lady, he’d better figure out how to keep her guessing…2. Just as guys are driven toward sex, I guess women are driven towards following the crowd. Maybe an aware woman not as much, but there is still the tendency.
Hey Bobby!
Thanks for the great info. I’m what many would consider an older guy; I’ve had my successes and failures. But I’ve learned quite a bit from this first week, especially the reasons for not being the “nice guy.” Looking back over the years, I can see how being the “nice guy” has worked against me; I appreciate you telling how women view it – it explains a lot.
Hi Bobby – Shoulda got your program 20 years ago before I got married – to all you guys out there make sure you listen to the program. Don’t get stuck in a 20 year marriage only to wake up and find out that you missed out on so many great opportunities to find the right girl.
This program is helping me in some areas of my life that sorely need to be changed – not sure I can save the marriage or if I even want to at this point. I still love my wife but I have given her so much power and I have sacrificed so much to try to make her and the family happy that she expects everything and that is the biggest mistake of my life.
Hey Bobby,
This past weekend I went out with the girl that sits in the cubicle across from mine and I openly put off my Muay Thai training to go out with her that night. Obviously I got friend zoned that night. At the end of it she asked me to go out of my way and pick her up before work while her cars in the shop, every day next week. Normally I’d do this without asking a question, but after reading the lessons and watching the story about the Frank you know, I decided I don’t wanna be that Frank. I Immediately sent her a text letting her know I couldn’t pick her up. I know it’s not much but I think it’s a step to start showing her I’m not gonna be her chump, but her champ.
‘Nice Guys’… different spin.. Nice guys don’t finish last… they aren’t even in the f–n race!!
she’s bantering/flirting with u
Great attitude great points iv noticed the same things the mind shift was a big help
what does it mean when a female tells you she hates you jokingly?
great…
Thank you bobby, you are reading our minds and heading us to the right track, tank you my friend.
Bobby thank you for this. I skimmed through 4 day to kind of help me with me and my best friend and at first she thought I was distanceing myself when I was just talking with all our friends and her also but did texting trick and kinda worked cuz she asked for my phone lol. She apologized for being a b**** and seems fine now.
You are too much, excellent..
Hi Bobbie, you are so right man. Being nice only gets you another lonely night. Good video, there are a lot of nice guys at my work, who complain they can’t get a girlfriend, and try way to hard.
Joe
thanks man , really now i have confident , and i know to control a conversation , and get women attraction easily , and make her intersted in talking to me . i have learned alot from the first week
Do things you teach us here work on girls who you already know i`m 20 and i`m still a student so i`m wondering do things like this work on my friends?
U pičku materinu.
Hey man ive tried everything nd couple of things work bust most are bs so i was just wondering if u could give me a free trial or smthing cuz i really need it cuz i dont want to waste money on smthing bullshity.
i got day 1 and the day7 a few minutes later. am i signed up twice? once a week ago? your advice pls thanks
For the past couple of weeks ive honestly been tryin some of these techniques out, and for some of you guys out there that still haven’t really tried itf… i’m telling you DO IT! It’s not this magical overnight solution but it has changed my thought process, attitude, and outlook on approaching girls, not being the nice guy, and just being more confident overall. Im really starting to feel the shift, but what im noticing more is the subtle changes in the way these girls are responding. It’s like they can smell a confidence a mile away and trust me they notice. I get to practice a lot since I go to UGA but I’ve literally had girls recently start blowing up my phone/twitter/fb and some girls from my hometown who ask me every few days when i’m coming home SINCE i started trying some of this stuff. Can’t wait for some more lessons to learn by summers start.
Great video… i now am more confident on everything i do cant wait to see wats next…
awesome ! video ..i always fucked up becoming a nice guy !! i did’t even think of the bad feeling talking to a girl ..i am always afraid of loosing girls !!! hope not becoming a nice guy works from today ! i will try it..
Hey man!
Awesome tips and strategy’s. but I cant get no sound from any of your videos :/
Peace
/J
Hey man,
you’re video is not working…
One word, Epic.
Vdo worked finally.
This guy just read out my whole life. Its not just women if you look at it from a bigger perspective. Nice guys have this problem with everyone. We are constantly looking to please everyone. Rule No1 of the Universe : You cannot please everyone and even if you caaaaan you should not be. Whats the catch about you then? I was and have so far been poor ol frank. BUT NO MORE.
Thanks Bobby
You are doing a lot of guys a great service.
Hey Bobby
the vdo isnt working.
Please send me the link again.
Thanks
So basically the first week is just a summary of what is expected for the next 24 days?
Also on Day 6 i read the whole cheat sheet it was very informative but i’m confused you have the girl view you as the way you want her to see you as but what makes a good conversation before you begin to banter?
BTW i look forward for future tips you can email me all you want i’ll read them all the more the merrier.
Bobby! Thanks for the 31 days challenge this makes me more aware on how to view things especially how to deal with women. Your videos are awesome but I only finish just half of it everytime I watch it, it’s a total waste to skip this video so do you have a text version of this video? If it’s cool man.
Thanks for the fix.
I keep reading back and forth over your stuff between projects or when I’m stuck on work, it’s like subliminal advertizing on something I want at this point. And it’s really nice to know I’m not totally lost in the woods.
hey Doug, here’s a link for day 6
https://www.tsbmag.com/31days/day-6
Hey Bobby,
I’m enjoying your program so far. Thanks for the positive reinforcement, I’m glad I do a lot of this stuff already. My divorce shook my confidence but I’m shaking it off now.
I am having issues with the week #6: it never popped in my email and when I clicked through this page’s link I got a 404. I’d like to give that one a look too. Hope it’s fixed soon.
yea that all sounds so familiar. not quite suer how to act like i’ve got a supermodel girlfriend but i’ll work on it. Thanks
yo u r soo telling the truth, im glad there ppl. like u out here…..i have seen soo many nice guys , lol need i say more? u give the best advise….your an expeert at what u do
Hi, Still married after 20 odd years, she has taken me body and soul, you have changed all that in one week, all my mates were telling me that its a man place to suffer, been on rations of sex since the first year of marrigage I thought it was the right thing todo, all the aggrevation with no release, boy what a berk Ive been yes a couple of lovely kids but with a woman, that wont open up, did once this week when I said no, amazing how it changed the intensisity. Who knows she might do all the stuff we used todo before marriage when there was no inhabitions.
i am looking forward to my trainning, and now talking to a couple of females via Skpye and meant a lovely women tonight at yoga and yes lost for words or the killer instinct.
keep it coming
thx Peter
Hi Bobby,
I don’t hear audio with your video…, it’s not soundcard problem, since I hear it from other web site, but not from yours.
q.
Great week man! im lookin forward to the next 3
ive already starting some stuff i learned the first. and i have gotten more numbers from chicks and have been getting laid sooner. im really happy to see what else he has up his sleeves
Hi, i got a huge crush on this girl, and she is kind of interested in my but she has a boyfriend and theres really no scuse for us to hang out as we dont share anything in common (different colleges, diferent friends…). How can i invite her out without sounding needy?
dude, I am the same…nice by nature. How do you get over it? it’s almost like it’s my instinct to be nice.
I will no longer fall for the texting traps!
Hey I AM A NICE GUY BY NATURE and I realised on my own that we finish last… I just hope that I can change that behavior through this program. So far it’s promising…
sweet vid man iv seen the change in my game already i got about 12 numbers this week thanks again
guys have to say got some good news but i may need a hand, anyways i was out last nite with the lads and i bumped into a girl that used to go to my school, -tbh i think she pretty fit- n i stopped n chatted with her 4 a bit my m8s n some of hers said to me we seemed to be gettin on pretty well got her phone number n things but since i havent talkd to her in a while im worried tht the convos will go dry after a bit so anytips to get a convo started and kept going and how not to seem overly keen/ desperate
cheers 😀
My game is definitely improving. I had every woman (4) at this little party attracted to me the other night. They couldn’t keep their hands off of me. Then the fattest ugliest gal just muscled through and pushed the other girls away and there was no way I was fucking her.
I solidly number closed my target and lately it seems to me that numbers are weak and women whether they’ll admit it or not like a guy who can move fast. One night stands really aren’t my thing. Damn overconfident fat bitch.
I’ve never had this “problem”. I’ll take it as a sign that things are getting better.
its kinda getting hard when u try to do that in real world
specially when it comes to interaction and trying to act
Thank you Bobby, I lose plenty girls by coming across needy, (cause I am)… Girls say I m handsome, intelligent and unique… but away they go , and I am jacking off again… Talk about a dry spell, last time I got last laid was last August!! and it was pleasureless a fat and ugly one!!
So now I will employ some of your stategies…. acting busy, not replying to call and messages/ e-mails right away etc….. Thank you again… K
We got a lesson coming up about how to “tease” a girl without coming across like an asshole. A couple simple things to keep in mind. Lesson will be coming next week.
Awesome video.. This is the kind of stuff i need to keep hearing.
Any tips for how to be less nice, but without being a total dick. I just think the girls that know be will be shocked if i start acting like a total dick
I definitely fall into some of the nice guy traps. This video is definitely going to help me step up my game.
This is a brilliant video Bobby, and the first week has been great thanks:) I really like your straight to the point method, no messing around yes its good stuff:)
very good man great video