Day #6: #1 Way to Make Her Chase You
Short cuts.
Every one loves short cuts. And cheat sheets. It’s human nature.
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Speaking of Cheat Sheets… Have you gone through the cheat sheets, have you gone through the Cheat Sheets I told you about on day 1. (get them here) In a few days we have a MAJOR lesson on teasing. You should review the Cheat Sheets before the lesson.
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Remember what you learned yesterday?
[+} Women use the opinion of the crowd as a shortcut to make up their own mind.
So knowing that…
If you could make a girl believe one thing about you, what do you think would most make her want to date you?
That you’re rich? That you’re packing nine inches?
That you’re insanely confident? That you’re talented, passionate, intelligent? That you’re the energizer bunny in bed?
If you guessed any of these things you’d be wrong for 90% of the women out there.
If you want to get a woman to believe any one thing about you it should be:
[+] That you are wanted by other women
Many of my personal clients hire me to get a specific girl re-attracted to them. And over-and-over I explain, nothing is more effective than jealousy and making a woman feel as if she has to compete for your attraction.
The #1 Rule: Women want to be with men they think other women want to be with.
That is it.
If a woman thinks other women are attracted to you and want to be with you she will want to make you her boyfriend or have sex with you.
If she thinks you don’t usually get girls like her, even if she likes you she will put the breaks on.
Most guys never wind up with the woman they are really attracted to because they act like a guy who’s not used to being with a woman like her.
I remember back in the seventh grade I sat across from Suzy.
She was a year younger than me and saw me in the hallway told one of my friends I was cute. And asked if I wanted to eat lunch with her.
She was so pretty and I had never had a girl like me before, so I was nervous.
I got more awkward the longer we sat there. Which only made her more uncomfortable.
Finally she said “its cute you don’t; have to be so nervous.”
I thought it was a good sign that she said it was cute.
But after that she never talked to me again.
The fact that I was nervous around her told her that I probably had not eaten lunch with many pretty girls.
Which meant?
Pretty girls probably didn’t go for a guy like me. So she moved on.
When I graduated college I met this girl Tara.
She was amazing.
We went on a couple dates and I started thinking she was ‘the one’.
I referred to her as “Wifey” to all my friends.
We had loads in common and she had an innocent girl next door cuteness to her.
Because I liked her so and didn’t want to lose her I made sure I answered her texts right away, whenever she asked me to hang out I dropped plans to meet up with her, and even sent her a big bouquet of flowers before our 4th date.
Sitting in a Sushi Bar on our fourth date, she stutters for a second than says ‘you know, you’re really nice guy but I don’t want to lead you and would rather we just be friends’
Why?
The fact that I was so willing to rush into a relationship her told her I probably didn’t have many other options.
Which meant?
If I don’t have other options its because other girls aren’t chasing me. So she moved on.
Here’s a question, you might want to know the answer too; how, how do women know that other women, are attracted to you, just by looking at you?
Here’s the beautiful thing, they don’t, they’re absolutely guessing, and they are pretty good at it too, but they are not perfect at it.
If you know the exact techniques, the exact recipe, for sex, that I’m going to reveal to you over the next month, you can make any woman think, that other women are climbing over each other, to get at your jock.
If you want to get women do and say things that create the impression you have options and other women want you.
If you want to be single do things that create the impression that you don’t have many options.
The problem is that most guys have been told to do things like compliment a woman, buy her things, tell her how you feel, but doing these things give off the impression that don’t have many options and probably haven’t been with too many attractive women.
I will give you an example.
See, a lot of guys will wait to make a move on a woman and won’t try to kiss her on the first dat.
They think they’re being respectful and you’re showing a woman that they want to get to know her. But what you are really showing her is that you’re taking the date way too seriously.
See, the guys who have lots of options always go for the kiss if they are attracted to a woman because they aren’t scared of being rejected. They’ll just move on to another girl.
If you want to get women do and say things that create the impression you have options and other women want you.
Its THAT simple.
Re-watch Bonus video: #1 Way to Make a Girl FIGHT for your Attention
Make it happen!
Bobby Rio
P.S. There is even a MUCH MORE powerful way to make a woman think you are ‘in demand.’
And it involves how you talk to her. I don’t want to say much about it now because I’ll be covering it in detail on Day 10.
Previous Lesson: Day 5
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Bobby I need some advice. I was seeing this Bulgarian chick and she left town to go visit the USA and soon she will be back in town for one week before moving a few states away. We had two dates and things slowed down before she left but we recently made plans to hang out one last time before she moves but I suspected she might not be for real about it so I cancelled on her last night without apologizing or giving a reason. She wants to know why now and I don’t know what to say or how to make sure it happens and sleep with her before she goes. Please help!
This is helping me so much that it’s actually hard to keep up with all the women.
I don’t think Tony will ever “get it” and will be forever frustrated lmao!!
Do you really want a girl who succumbs to your GAMES?
You keep talking about these cheat sheets.It tells me the page can not be found.Can u please send me a email with them,thanks.
Cheat sheet page cannot be found. Could you get it back up?
Facebook
Louis shared Adult Jokes 18+’s photo….FROM ACTUAL Face Book conversation.
Not to mention the most common afflictions, which are random bouts of aggression, bitterness, insomnia, anger and various forms of psychosis. DEFINITELY no “joke.” So sad that such a natural expression of love can be such a seemingly common and fleeting symptom of a “contemporary” society.
Tonya Not to mention possible health risks. I believe it plays a factor in prostate issues.
Louis You’re right, but I wanted to stay focused on those things that affect both genders.
Tonya True
Tonya I have nothing to go on as I am no doctor. It just makes sense to me.
Louis One of the most common in women is insomnia.
Tonya Ha ha, you went there lol…
Louis Men too, but I don’t hear men bitch about it as much
Louis I mean complain
Tonya The phone and facebook helps lol smile emoticon
Louis Really, how so? I’m very curious now grin emoticon
Tonya We are both on it. Ha ha
Louis You mean like “the next best thing?”
Tonya Well not really. But, ok smile emoticon
Tonya I love your posts. They are great. I can’t help but to comment. They appeal to me.
Louis You know, I won’t tell you what happened to the last person who said that…lol You’re treading on awfully dangerous territory.
Louis Just pullin’ your leg Tonya, and DON’T respond to that last remark, okay? !! lol
Tonya I’m all good with it wink emoticon
Louis You’re such a sport….I LOVE it !
Tonya Always smile emoticon
THEN, IT WENT TO PRIVATE MESSAGING AS FOLLOWS:
Chat Conversation Start
Where?
On the sex post lol
See smile emoticon
You just wanted to talk to me again smile emoticon blushing….
Lol…you
You’re a little shit aren’t you? Funny girl!
Tue 9:26pm
I have comedy in me lol
that’s awesome. Rare virtue these days
I love laughing.
I’ve got to go pick up my daughter from a friends house. Back later?
And making others smile or laugh
Me too
Ok
Be safe
Talk soon !
7:49am
Hey you,
have a terrific day today smile emoticon
9:45am
Thank you, same
THEN, it got into flirting and talking about kissing goof, etc.
(Y) Very helped
Thanks for sharing lesson 6 Bobby.
Hey Bobby, awsome tips. I uaed a couple of the tricks from the “make her beg” training the other night (the sly look, the “handshake”) and had a solid 8 eating it up.But Houston we have a problem- I clicked onthe cheat sheet link, and the page could not be found. I really want to read em. HELP! _Rob
Another post for my personal diary:
Ok, im not sure about the facebook with many pictures of hot friends, but its true that some of them will be good. So next time I take a picture with hot girl.
Tip number two: ok good point
Tip number three: Im busy already, so i need to schedule my appointments so thats what Im doing already.
that was some great tips
Bob I can’t view your cheat sheets, from the day 1 I m trying to get it, it always shows page not found
Trying to get cheat sheets but said page no longer exists, do I find it somewhere else?
All great ideas to try. so far its helping a lot.
By accident, I discovered an easier way to look like your time is in demand. I was job hunting, so I posted my resume, at first, on Monster.com and CareerBuilder.com with my email account to notify my cell phone of any incoming emails. Now I have resumes posted on a dozen job boards that begin sending emails at 3am going all day and into the night, each time my cell phone gives me a notification. I don’t have to keep texting them or responding to keep the emails coming. When I get to a girls place to pick her up for a date, before I go to the door, I quickly pull up one of the emails, scroll through it, clicking on several “quick apply” buttons, and within 10 minutes each of those quick apply’s responds with a “your application has been received” email and notification to my phone. I can look at one of the emails with her sitting there, click a couple “quick apply ” buttons on that email, and bam, more emails. The beauty, you don’t have to bee job hunting and you never have to respond to any of these emails. They still keep coming.
Women have been playing games since they were born. They begin with their fathers. These games are second nature to them and even though they deny it, they play these games all day without thinking. they all play the same basic games, with each girl putting her own spin on them. So why shouldn’t we be playing games with them. And we have to train ourselves not to play fair. They don’t, we shouldn’t. As Pat Benatar sang,,,, Love is a Battlefield. All is fair in love and war.
greatttttttttttttttttt, perfect
so recently i heard the boyfriend destroyer audio.
at the very end bobby said the girl will give such excuses as “i don’t think this is what i wanted” and that they do that to test us.
well i deflated my mood changed bad into angry.
so since i did mess up should i go into a black out stage and start again?? i understand now that i should had been stronger and now that i know this i want to get another chance.
should i go for the black out phase and try again or just walk away?
The more I keep looking at dating advice, the more I keep thinking: that’s so obvious. Why didn’t I think of that already? Everything is a like a new ‘eureka’ moment. This is generally true. It’s just that you have to act a certain way at certain times and if you don’t you ‘fail’. It’s like the first time I had a girlfriend, girls looked at me differently and guys were jealous. Human psychology, eh? The key to all of life is understanding psychology and only using it for good.
I am an older dude and just got divorced not too long ago… i have been out of the game for a long time and i have to admit that i was concerned that this information may not work on an older woman…yeah..i was wrong…i have noticed that things are changing.. i have a ways to go but i like what i hear and it works on on any age…a woman is a woman…your kung-fu is strong…thanks
xanx boby ur great
hi boby xanx man, that i dint get the cheat sheet and the opening lines
Bobby, I went to click the cheat sheet and it said the page was not found. Would it be possible if you can share it?
Was out last night this girl from work emailed me and asked if I wanted to go eat at a particular restaurant I had mentioned we should go in an email like 2 weeks earlier had not heard back. So we meet did a lot of techniques and had conversation going good. Did flirting probably not enough sexy talk and she seemedto be iinterested watched for playing bwith hair etc. When walking to her car said goodbye but
only got kiss on check. So I’m afraid may have fallen into friendzone but think I did do enough to pull back
out. Now what? Don’t wanna blow it with some
dumbass text. I don’t see her at work hardly she is in another dept. And hours are different. How do I make sure I’m not in friends zone?
Sure these tricks work to get the girls attention but it also makes you fake and sooner or later she’ll see that. Take for example you meet a girl like her well enough to make things official. Things like pictures with hot girls text messages 24/7 etc. will ruin your relationship eventually. Women are not objects, and yes some of them are strong enough to have an opinion of their own not caring what other women think of you. That’s when they leave so you’ve lost a potentiolly good women for a joke that’s cruel, fake, and cynical. Use these tricks if you’d like to get the girl but just remember that these tricks don’t necessarily teach you how to keep an honest and respectful relationship/marriage much less raise a family. It’s used to get women into bed with manipulating tricks that even if they aren’t as straight forward as “normal” approaches are still just as bad. That’s the one guy you don’t want to be.
Is there a way to get some of your bonus features WITHOUT “liking” you on Facebook? There is no way I am going to announce to all my friends on Facebook that I am looking at PUA information.
Most of the people I know think it is wrong even to be “looking” for a girlfriend; it is just supposed to happen. Reading about techniques to meet women wold get me labelled as a loser at best, a scumbag and dirty old man at worst. Maybe you should change the name of your site to something that will not draw attention of that sort.
awwesome…….i liked dis trick….its more practical
awesome tips bobby! thanks. And Tip No 2, that really works.
hay bobby , i din’t receive day 3 to day 5 subscribtion could you resend again
no girl would want to take a picture with me…
Everything is becoming clearer… Bt still waiting on the rest thanxs…
Hey Bobby, for my Facebook page how would I go about taking pictures with pretty girls? Should I just randomly ask “hey, lets take a picture?” That seems a little weird…
i really like this lesson. thx.
Sound good like a good idea 🙂
Bobby, you ROCK!!! Awesome lesson!
Hi,bobby one of my co-workers was in the hallway coming toward the door ,I opened it and she started running ,and I said don’t rush ,I want to watch you anyway,she blush,smiled,and all I saw was a nice round ass
Seems like I’ve been going about it the wrong way. Great tip!
I cant get the cheat sheets, because for some reason I cant make a facebook account, its FN stupid
Great advise man. I can tell you that this works…super. Women sure want you more when they think that other women want you.
Nice nice Bobby-how can I maintain my long distance relationship please help I don’t want to loose her
reply pliz
Hey bobby your the best, I’m learning something everyday from you
Brother u are mega much. i like todays tip greatly…
man this was coolest point a guy can give to another guy…
thanks a lot man.
rogar that
Just say “a friend” always be vague.
Hey Bobby,
Like you said to add lots of pictures of girls in your facebook profile
but what if she asks who is she? what should i answer???
Reply plz…..
dis sounds excellent n lm beginning to see things turn around for good
yea, got a TSB page where i’m active: http://www.facebook.com/TSBMagazine
hey bobby..!!!thnks fr ur wonderful advice nd tricks…..i really njoy readng u….r u on fb??
bye takcr
these sound like the could work. it makes so much sense now
Hey Bobby, Its great!!, you observation is mind blowing,I think I’m going to get big with you..
HI Bobby, good stuff there so much BS out there in the PUA field it nice to have guys like you around!!! What do you think of DR. L RX book Dating and Relating? Please let me know thanks Todd
Bobby, hei man this sounds perfect and makes a lot of sense, suspense is not good to anybody.
Sir Bobby, u ar truly a guy,this day 6 taught leson,u ar a profesor
bobby, you rock man! its nice finally being able to get into their minds alittle bit! cant wait for the next lesson
you can grab them here: http://www.makesmalltalksexy.com/blog/banter-lines
Bobby How can I get the cheat sheets I do not have a face book acct and do not want to start one at this time. Would really like to see them. On a different note went to a bar last Friday tried a couple of your ideas had one women turning her back on her date and talking to me and two of the cocktail waitress buy me drinks after their shift.
Your techniques work great.
guys have to say got some good news but i may need a hand, anyways i was out last nite with the lads and i bumped into a girl that used to go to my school, -tbh i think she pretty fit- n i stopped n chatted with her 4 a bit my m8s n some of hers said to me we seemed to be gettin on pretty well got her phone number n things but since i havent talkd to her in a while im worried tht the convos will go dry after a bit so anytips to get a convo started and kept going and how not to seem overly keen/ desperate
cheers 😀
thanx a lot dude!!!!!!my lyf’s improvd a lot now
man bobby u rock i started doing what u said it already paying me off njoying a lot in new life buddy thank u
Sounds like some pretty good tips.. Ill definently be trying these out =]
I really like ignoring texts when you’re with her after reading the first one. She will definitely think they’re from another girl! Awesome tip