Day #29: Managing a Relationship
As I write this I’m in the middle of planning a little excursion down to Kite Beach in the Dominican Republic.
Every year me and my buddies like to get away to do some surfing, play some golf, and mingle with the local ladies….
Five of my buddies were supposed to go this year…
But three of them just backed out.
Take a guess why.
…
There girl said “NO.”
End of story.
That’s it.
Not going.
Done.
And they said “Okay.”
Unfortunately, many guys wind up in these sort of relationships.
Where they basically let a woman CHOP THEIR BALLS OFF.
We’re coming to the end of the road here…
And the fact is, as your game improves, so does the amount of relationships you find yourself in.
So there are some things you need to know.
I’m gonna keep this lesson short.
Why?
Because there is TWO major pieces of advice when it comes to relationships.
…And I don’t want it to get lost in a long lesson
Here it is:
1. Set the Precedent Right From the Beginning
I have a girlfriend.
I still hang out with my friends.
I still take trips with my buddies.
I still get blowjobs
Why?
Because I establish the rules early on in a relationship.
I tell a woman “Every year I go on a guy’s trip with my buddies.”
I tell a woman “Don’t bother me on Sunday’s during football season”
I tell a woman “Sometimes you’re gonna catch me checking out another girl’s ass… it doesn’t mean I don’t love you. But I’m a guy and I enjoy looking at the female body.”
See most guys do the opposite.
They fall in love.
And immediately hand a woman over the power on a silver platter.
Remember what we talked about on day 22?
Once you give a woman the power… you are NEVER getting in back.
The first time you let a woman talk you out of hanging out with your friends…
Or the first time she complains about giving you a blow job….
That’s it.
You set the precedent.
She calls the shot.
Get used to it.
Cause she’ll hold onto that power like her life depended on it.
Here is my advice:
Take a step back from the allure of the new pussy.
And remember this:
Whatever you give into now… you will be giving into for the rest of the relationship.
So set the ground rules early.
——————Note——————————
If you’re in a relationship, and you want to keep her interest, then its important to always remember that Boredom = death with girls.
If you’re looking to make her a little jealous, this technique works wonders.
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What’s the second piece of advice?
This one is simple
2. Fuck Her Brains Out
Yep.
Told you it was simple.
If you’re giving a girl an orgasm. She’s hooked. She’s not going anywhere.
Sit back and relax, cause you own her.
Still need help in the bedroom?
a.) Re-read the lesson on Day 25
So there you go….
Bobby Rio’s guide to a happy relationship.
Make it happen!
Bobby Rio
P.S. Tomorrow might be one the most important lessons of all.
You’re going to learn how to end it with a girl you no longer want to hang out with.
Previous Lesson: Day 28
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Bob, you are the MAN. I told you after receiving your lessons, you immediately saved me thousands of $. Had one of the sweetest, sexiest young girls ever. I was so enamored, I violated some rules and then when I cracked the whip she changed 180 degrees. I had been seeing her for 4 months and NEVER did she break character, not once. I immediately dumped her. She got very hostile, a side I could have never imagined. Now I follow the rules you have laid down and I had forgotten from my youth. My problem now? I have three great women I am seeing. 23, 38 & 40! From my current experience, I don’t think the young guys know how to eat pussy. You get your gf arroused with cunilingus and then they take off! Note: Be careful to not let them cum or you may be looking at a girl with just a blank stare on her face for a while! One of my gf has a bi friend and her gf said she wants me to teach her my techniques! You hit it on the head when you said give them an orgasm and they will stick around. Well let me ad, if you give them a mind blowing orgasm, they will be wanting to know when your next meetup is before you even get out the door. Can’t wait until tomorrow, I need to know how to separate without hostility. Not now, but certainly in the future…
I have learned so much from your materials and Robs too but I really need one advice in life.
I’m good with girls but fallen in love very badly and I got the sickness but made it to a kinda relation ship and made lots of mistakes I did not have your courses yet. Long story short everything ended recently but I wanto have a crack at her again in a few months time using everything I learned from UHL, scrambler etc she also is kinda still thinking about her ex as I became a looser and made her fall out of me cause of it.
Can I tell her as a last message as a closure goodbye message that the reason I messed up and became a looser is cause I have never fallen for anyone this and couldnt handle it properly ? I wanto do this before starting my 2 month blackout period. Is this a mistake or good ? Will it make its easier to start with fresh cards if she knows why I messed stuff up ?
This setting ground rules sounds so important. It reminds me somewhat of David DeAngelo saying that “No” is one of the sexiest words to a girl and the establishment of healthy boundaries that Dr. Paul in Mind OS describes. It also reminds me of animal training, which I’ve been studying, too. You can’t beg a dog to perform tricks for you after you’ve fed it. You have to dangle the doggie treat and shape the behavior while it’s craving. And, with generating lust and those deeper passions, we really are probing into her animal mind.
I would rather roll solo…and let women call out me out as a player…rather than being in a fake relationship…in which a woman believes or feels that I’m a chump zero to be played…or put on the planet to kiss her ass…hell no!!!
Gotta say thanks to Bobby an Rob. 31 days is an awesome program, giving more insight into the female mind than I ever thought possible. What I would have given for all this advice in high school. Gonna keep all my downloads an review from time to time. Have had three new women in my life just since listening to you guys. Can’t say thanks enough. It’s been a ball. Adios!
Once you give up something you will never get it back, then also she will start to demand you give up things, it’s best to lay the ground early, otherwise as the relationship lengthens, you may become a puppet on a string. And if you want to give up some of your activities, friends and traditions, make sure she does! Great advice Bobby, you got awesome stuff
Thanks Bobby I’ve realized all the mistakes I’ve been making, I feel like a nut case for letting these women run the show, now I know get a grip and don’t let go. I got this what they want.
… and I am still waiting for the part of
“Happy break up with her & still be hot with her GFs”
…in which dreamland do you live?
Great Stuff. You have over delivered, thank you.
My issues has not been meeting and dating, my issue has been gf management. Been dating 3 to 5 chick at the same time, but have been struggling with the management aspect. Now down to two, but everyday has been difficult. This post helps a lot.
By the way bob, there is not much out there on gf management.
Rich, in shape, not bad looking, look alot younger than my age., pretty damn smart too! Except when it comes to women. Married for a long, long time. Made every mistake in the book that you and Carlos have talked about. Yup you guessed it after 30 years I got dumped and divorced for her highschool “sweetheart.” At least we did produce two smart drop dead gorgeous daughters (but that’s a father speaking) Did everything wrong trying to get her back. A Franciscan begger could have taken lessons from me. At my age I signed up for your program and Carlos’s as a lark–, I figured I didn’t need women-although I always loved ’em. Again, as a hoot at started taking your advice. All I will say is that it worked, time and time again. And surprise of surprises, as her friends told her of my successes—taking your advice I stopped taking her calls and texts, and surprise of surprises guess who is madly in lust with me again?? Your pretty young, but I’d give you and Carlos a PhD. in what you do anytime.
Straight to the point. Well said, Bobby man!
A relationship is about fairness and equallness not demands and statements that let you run wild. This right here is what I am talking about. Respect your wife/girlfriend as you would like to be respected in return this does not include checking other girls out on purpose. Please, it’s pathetic. A child’s game. A real true relationship doesn’t have gimmicks and tricks nor lines etc. it’s Part of life. It comes as it does and nobody I mean nobody in this world has all the tricks to make it work every time. There’s fights where she’s the one who must apologize and others where I as the male must apologize. There are things I don’t want her doing and she doesn’t there are things she doesn’t want me doing, for example having a million females in my phone, that I don’t do. You want a real relationship? Let it happen. It’s fake otherwise if you had to FORCE attraction with silly lines and stupid demands. Take it from a man who has been happily married for 12 years now with the most beautiful woman both in and out and has been blessed with a wonderful family. I don’t need any part of this “game” to be able to know how to work it and keep it.
thanks bobby. your advice kicks ass. easy to apply too!
I was just wondering about this. I’ve found that over the past month I really have gotten so much better with women. So much so that I got invited to a party last weekend and declined and said, “naw I’m okay, I have enough girls.” This lesson is definitely going to help keep them now. Thanks Bobby
loving this big time.
thanks
OUCH LOVING THIS ONE