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About Carlos Xuma Carlos Xuma is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt martial arts instructor and motivational life counselor. He's the author of The Dating Black Book, Secrets of the Alpha Man, the Power Social Skills program, and many others. Carlos' programs teach the essence of attraction between the sexes. His approach is called R.E.A.L. Game, which he's been teaching for the last 8 years with his programs and seminars. Carlos shows you how to use your authentic personality to attract the opposite sex, and make enhance your entire LIFESTYLE - to see and feel the Big Picture of attraction and success in social dynamics.

3 “Bad Boy” Attraction Triggers

Posted January 9, 2015

Bad Boy Attraction Trigger #1: Break Rapport Every guy out there is taught to work REALLY hard to build rapport with a woman ? to forge that connection with her. While th ...

Is She Playing Hard to Get?

Posted May 14, 2013

She\'s hot, she\'s cold, and you can?t tell up from down sometimes when you\'re with her. It?seems?like she likes you, but just how do you know?for sure? And how do you find ...

Confidence is Complete Bullsh*t

Posted May 7, 2013

Confidence is complete Bullsh*t Yeah, that?s a pretty brave thing to open up with. But stick with me and I?ll explain how you\'ve probably been conned by most of the self-help g ...

4 Things You Need To Know About Women

Posted May 3, 2013

I went out to see a movie recently with a good friend of mine, Jeff. The movie - \"Side Effects\" - turned out to be a pretty decent crime?drama, where the well-meaning guy is caug ...

How to Finally Eliminate Approach Anxiety for Good

Posted October 19, 2009

Eliminating Anxiety I wanted to take a second to address the Anxiety question that a lot of guys have. I?ve experienced much of the same thing every guy has with this fear, a ...

What Not to Talk About on a Date

Posted January 15, 2006

5 Things Never to Talk About on a Date There are subjects you really need to avoid talking to women about .It\'s really pretty common sense, but sometimes when a guy\'s mouth ge ...