Must-Read: Crazy Sex Mistakes People Make

So you finally get the lady into the bedroom. Your bar game has worked to a T, your apartment is nice and clean so that it doesn’t give her an excuse to leave, your bedroom has the perfect mood lighting and the music is the perfect mix of softness and sexiness. The make out session has quickly elevated into the next level, there’s all sorts of feeling-up and what-not, and you lie her down on the bed. And then …?

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Here’s where it gets a little tricky. If you mess up terribly, you can be sure she won’t give you another chance. And really, the only way to know exactly what you’re doing is to put in the house and have all sorts of experience to draw from. So, then. How do you know when you’re making a mistake? Well, a good indicator is by sensing that she’s not enjoying it. But if that doesn’t work, then check out these common sex mistakes over at Men’s Fitness. Like this one:

CLAM JAMMING
Once you’ve shut up long enough to get below her clothes, be mindful of your fingers (i.e., don’t start cramming them in her like you’re trying to clear a clogged drain). The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings in an area smaller than a pea, which means that the lightest touch is enough to bring it to attention. Poke too hard and it feels more like an awkward jolt than a pleasurable sensation, like any contact with a penis right after orgasm. Start with a gentle touch, and she’ll push against you to signal for more aggression.

Head over to the above link for more examples.