How To Get A Threesome

Tothisday,ISTILLremembermyfirst.Becausemost?first?experiencesinbedwhichweren?tasgoodasIfantasizedabout,myfirstwasfuckingamazing.

Butitdidn?tcomewithoutsometrialanderror.I?dtriedatleastfivetimestogetswithwomeninthepast,butinevitablyblewiteverytime.WheneverIthoughtitwasgoingtohappen,somethingwouldalwayscomeupwhichwouldmakeoneorbothofthegirlswanttobackout.Butthistime,itwasdifferent.Andhere?sexactlywhatwasdifferent?thistime,MYGIRLFRIENDactuallywantedthemorethanIdid!

Infact,sheactuallytooktheinitiativetocalloneoftheothergirlsIwashavingsexwithatthetime,andinviteherovertowatchamovie.Talkaboutakeeper!

Sotheothergirlcomesover,andallthreeofusareinmybed,inthedark,watchingthemovie.Iwasreallynervousatthispoint?I?dgottenthisfarandblownitmultipletimes,soIwantedtomakesurethatIdidn?tthistime.RatherthanjusttryingtoinitiatethewithoutaplanlikeIdidbefore,Idecidedtotrysomethingnew.First,Istartedkissingmygirlfriend.Ikissedherpassionatelyforoveraminute…andIcouldsensetheothergirlgettingREALLYuncomfortable.SoIleanedovertoher…andstartedkissingher.Shewasalittlehesitantatfirst,butthenshegotintoit.

Andthenthemagicmoment:Ibroughtbothgirlstowardseachother,andtoldthemtokisseachother.Hesitantly,theytouchedlips.Then,beforeIknewit,theyweremakingoutwitheachotherwithapassionIcouldn?tbelieve.Andfromthere,everythingjusttookcareofitself.

ThegirlsLOVEDeachother,andassoonastheystartedtouchingitseemedliketheycouldn?tstop.Andtheywereeagertopleasemeaswell,andtheymadeallofthethingsI?ddreamedofdoinginacometrue.Itwasabeautiful,magicalexperience.AndthereasonwhyI?mwritingtoyoutodayisthatIwanttoshowyouhowtohaveonejustlikeit.

WHYMOSTGUYSNEVERHAVETHREESOMES

Butagain,itdidn?tcomeeasyforme.IhadtoblowwaymoreopportunitiesthanIcaretorememberbeforeIfinallylearnedhowtosuccessfullyhaves.AndthereasonwhyIfailedtogetsinitially?andwhyMOSTguysfailtogetsfortheirentirelives?canreallybetraceddowntoonemindset.AndthatisthemindsetofTRYINGTOBETHESTAROFTHESHOWinthe,andmakingitALLABOUTYOU.Letmeexplain:

Whenmostguysaretryingtogeta,they?recompletelyfocusedonwhatanamazingexperienceitwouldbeforTHEM.Thisleadstodoingthingsliketellingtheirgirlfriendhowhavingahasbeentheirfantasyfortheirentirelife,andhowamazingitwouldfeelforHIMtohavetwowomensuckingonhiscockatonce.

Andinthebedroom,itleadstodoingthingsliketryingtoactlikepornstarsdoins,andmakingitallabouttheirownpleasure.Needlesstosay,IdidALLofthesethingsandIknowfromfirsthandexperiencetheseareallgreatwaystoblowa.

THEFOURKEYSTOGETTINGATHREESOME

WhatIeventuallydiscoveredisthatnearlyANYwomanwillwanttohavea,ifyoudofourveryimportantthingsright.Blowanyoneofthesefourthingsthough,andyoucankissyourmagicalexperienceofhavingtwogirlssuckyourcockatoncegoodbye.

1?BETHEDIRECTOR,NOTTHESTAR

AsImentionedbefore,havingthe?porn-star?mentalityandmakingitallaboutyouisasurewaytomakeherNOTwanttohaveawithyou.BymakingitYOURfantasyratherthanhers,you?retakingalltheexcitementoutofitforher.Itbecomesjustaboutpleasingyou,ratherthanwhatshewants.Themuchbetterway,Ifound,istomakeitallaboutHER.TomakeitHERfantasy,whichyouarejustfacilitating.

ThedifferencethismakesisHUGE?itwaswhymygirlfriendtooktheinitiativetoactuallycallupothergirlsfors,wherewithothergirlsIhadtocajoleandconvincethemtojustcomealong.AsIsaidbefore,almostallwomenareopentoabisexualexperienceifyouknowhowtomakeherexcitedforit.Buttheywillstillwantyoutoleadandcontroltheinteraction?especiallyifshehasn?tbeenwithmanygirlsbefore,she?llwantamantotaketheleadlikeshe?susedto.Sothisbegsthequestion?howtoyoulead,withoutmakingitallaboutyouandtryingtobethestar?

ThementalitythathasworkedbestformeistakingtheattitudeofbeingtheDIRECTOR.You?retheonewhosetseverythingup,andwholeadstheinteraction.Butthestarsarethetwogirls?you?rejustallowingthemtosexuallyconnectwitheachotherinawaytheycouldn?tdoontheirown.Andifyoucanmakethishappen,thenbelieveme…they?llbemorethanhappytotakecareofyourpleasure.?Soifyouwanttohaves,reallyinternalizethismentality:betheDIRECTOR,nottheSTAR.

2?USETHETHREESOMEFANTASYTOMAKEHERWANTIT

Ifyourgirlfriendhasnevershownanyinterestinotherwomen,you?reprobablywonderinghowyoucanmakeherwantainthefirstplace.Theabsolutebestwaytodothisistofirstrole-playtheThreesomeFantasywithherinbed,andmakethatagreatexperienceforher.Basically,withthefantasyyou?llbothbeimaginingthatyou?rehavingawhileyou?rehavingsex.ThismainlycomesdowntodescribinghowgooditwillfeelforHERtofeelthesensationsofanothergirlsexuallytouchingandcaressingher.

Therearealsoafewotherveryimportantdetailswhichcanmakeitfeelrealforher(suchasmytechniquetosimulateabisexualwomangivingheroralsex?womengoCRAZYforthisone).Almostallwomenwillbeopentorole-playingsomethinglikethis,ifyoudoitintherightway.Andonceyou?vestartedgivingherorgasmsfromimagineds,it?sVERYeasytogethertodooneforreal.

Idescribeexactlyhowtoenactthefantasyinmybook,theSexGodMethod.Ialsoillustrateitwithanexplicit,uncensoredexampleofusingthefantasyfrommyownsexlife.

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