The Biggest Mistake A Guy Can Make in Dating
Some crazy shit happened the other day and I have to share it with you guys?
?Please don?t make this same mistake?
VAN?S GOT YOUR BACK!
So, my best friend recently moved in with me and he is new to the state.
?He doesn?t know any women here and he?s actually really good with women?
He has mentioned a few times that he ?misses all his girls from back home??
I say this to emphasize that he is in a new place and has gotten pretty desperate lately to get some smush.
Last weekend he decided to go hit the clubs nearby so he could christen his manhood in some local strange?
?He came back home around midnight?
?Two women came home with him?
?All seemed well?or so it seemed?
I came out of my room to see what was going on and the two women were?
?Let?s just say?
?Not attractive at all?I mean by any measure.
He?s a good looking guy and has pulled some of the most beautiful women I?ve seen so I was confused.
Fast forward to the next morning?
I SWEAR ON EVERYTHING I HOLD DEAR AND LOVE THAT WHAT FOLLOWS IS THE TRUTH!
One of the girls stayed the night with him and her phone is on the table and keeps ringing every few minutes.
?The caller ID says ?Hubby??
Bad news?
Come to find out that ?Hubby? is actually her husband?WHO IS ACTUALLY A GIRL?
?wait for it?
!!!WHO IS IN THE PROCESS OF GETTING A SEX CHANGE TO BECOME A DUDE!!!
I couldn?t make this shit up so I?m just going to skip to the moral of the story?
How being thirsty will get you fucked up!
So, clearly my boy fucked up in many ways, but they all boil down to one big mistake.
BEING DESPERATE WILL FUCK YOU OVER!!
Ok so aside from the possibility of getting you into bed with an extremely unattractive woman who is married to a woman who is getting a sex change?
?Being desperate for ass can fuck us over in so many other ways and will ruin our chances with actual attractive unmarried women.
?Let?s take a closer look?
If it?s been a while and we?re desperate to get a win?let?s make sure we don?t settle and HERE?S WHY.
The fact is that just by settling, we?re eliminating your chances with the other good women who we actually have a good chance with if we just weren?t being so needy and impatient.
If the entire night is a bust and there is a drunk Wookie who has been following us around all night?
?THERE IS ALWAYS TOMORROW NIGHT!…
!!!Do not settle!!!
How other women see it.
Women will judge the value of a man based on how other women judge that man.
It is very effective to go out with other attractive women who are friends?
?To pick up attractive women who you want to fuck?
Because the women you are with are showing other women that how women want to be around you.
If we are taking a final leap of desperation for a drunk Wookie then other women will think they?d be a drunk Wookie to be with us?
This is DATING SUICIDE and is not worth it.
We are better than that.
It says a lot about our confidence in ourselves if we are coming across as desperate.
Women don?t want a clingy desperate guy?
Shit! No guy wants a clingy desperate woman?It is no different on their end.
We have to remember the importance of scarcity.
If we are being desperate and needy then we have given up all of our power in any interaction with a woman as well as any value she might have placed on us.
The dreaded morning after
Women are not just sexual objects for us to christen our manhood with when we get tired of jacking off.
STAY WITH ME HERE!
The morning after, once the sobriety sets in and the drunk goggles wear off?
We will have to answer for what we?ve done?
Telling a girl to kick rocks because you were drunk and now you don?t want anything to do with her is a great way to feel like shit?
?distort your perception of women?
And inevitably become the type of guy who women love to hate.
If we don?t value women?even the one?s we aren?t attracted to?as people then we don?t deserve any of em.
At the end of the day, we all deserve the woman who is right for us and the woman we really want.
If we let the small head drive, we?re going to end up in a wreck?
?every single fucking time?
Don?t miss out on the woman of your dreams because you?re so desperate to get laid.
Tame that wild beast and women will admire and respect it.
Beautiful women especially, get approached by desperate men all the time.
Being desperate is a great way to never get noticed by beautiful women.
It?s a great way to get lost in the crowd of thirsty fuckboys.
Please please do not end up like my good friend?
?If you read this bruh?I still love you?
Keep cookin fellas
About Van Bender Van Bender is a writer and coach specializing in becoming the alpha, the art of attraction and hacking the friendzone. Check out my website and subscribe for exclusive content Dayonedating.com