10 Unique Date Ideas
When I?m dating chicks or got a girlfriend, I?m always on the lookout for great activities to do with her. Dinners and movies are fine, those activities have their place, but those are old standbys. I like to spruce things up with some off-the-wall activities. Check out this list:
I happen to be a big fan of EDM and House music, and I?ve always dreamt of being an international DJ. Taking an intro DJ lesson with my girl sounds awesome (haven?t done it yet). I found this craigslist ad in my area for lessons that cost a mere $35/hour. If you live in a major city, try Scratch Academy or DJ4Life Academy.
Yes, I?m already an avid CrossFitter, but even if you?ve never done CrossFit, you can always drop in with your girl at a local ?box? and try the freebie class. It?s a fun way to get in a workout and compare notes on the biggest fitness phenomena on the planet. I like visiting gyms in other cities just to see what makes them unique. Sometimes I?ll do multiple drop-ins in a single day!
Pretty self-explanatory. I like beer and usually so does my girl, so we?ll map out a route and bike around getting our drink on. I can usually sell this to chicks by adding wine-centric joints to the route and a place for lunch. Now we?re talking.
I?ve always had a great time at local food truck bazaars, especially ones located near bars. Good for people watching and sampling foodie type dishes. I took my current girlfriend on our first date to a food truck bazaar.
This is all the rage in my home state of Florida and it makes for a fun date. If you like yoga, try a yoga class on stand-up paddleboards too.
I know, it?s a movie, but I?ve seen these springing up more and more. They are usually free, have a party vibe, and you can BYOB. What?s not to like?
I know this sounds weird, but I?ve done it once before and it was a major blast. Go to a thrift store that features cool/weird/old clothes, set a time limit, and pick out outfits for each other. Spend $10 per outfit and actually go out in them. You?ll get a lot of looks.
I?ve noticed bars around town are featuring old-school arcade games (think Pac Man) and pinball, which are always a blast. One place by my house does FREE arcade all the time, so it?s a cheap date. Put it on two-player, order suds, and get your geek on.
Best for hardcore adventurer couples, GORUCK Light is like a 5 hour mud run on steroids with pushups and flutterkicks. They are also a shitload of fun and a good way to have an intense experience with your girl.
I have to admit, I do this at least once a summer. There are TONS of resorts with amazing pools where I live, and it?s a cinch to mosey through a lobby and get into the pool. Don?t feel like cheating? Almost all resorts have a daily resort fee you can pay to access said pools. I?ve had 3-4 excellent dates using this idea in the past.
About Lance Lance is a tech geek by day, social artist and fitness enthusiast by night. He specializes in relationships in real life situations, such as workplace and in business, and his goal is to create high value social circles filled with opportunity. For more on his dating and relationship perspective, check out his blog honeyandlance.com