Must-Read: Get Her In the Mood

There are more tips for having sex than there are ways to have sex. This is well documented. Type in a Google search for “have better sex” and you will be bombarded with various positions and subtle mood-altering methods and creams and jells and oddly-shaped condoms and etc., and etc., forever. In fact, we try to stay away from TOO many sex advice things here simply because, at this point, there’s way too much information already out there. But when we do stumble upon a pretty great piece that we actually feel is worthwhile, well, then we have to forward it along to you, the dear reader.

So today we’re heading to AskMen.com, where their attractive doctor of love Dr. Victoria Zdrok has a bunch of ways for us to get her in the mood. The sex mood! All of which is advice worth taking, but most of all is this piece of advice that we’d like to highlight:

No.10 Try Mild Bondage And/Or Discipline

For some women, the thought of giving up responsibility for their sexual satisfaction is a powerful turn-on.

Prepare her by telling her what you will do to her tonight (you can leave her a note or a voice message or send her an e-mail). Demand that she prepare for it by wearing your favorite “slave” outfit and making herself beautiful. When the time comes, order her to get down on her knees and submit to her “master.”

Tie her gently with a soft bondage item, which can also be used to lightly tease her nipples. You can then proceed to tease her with a feather or a tickler, or give her a light spanking with your hand. Sex toys can also be used here.

Remember: The object of the dominant/submissive game is not humiliation or pain; it is to bring her to climax, and possibly more than once.

One of our favorites! Head on over to check out the rest of the advice and then get her in the mood.