Must-Read: Fixing A Lackluster Sex Life

If you’re in a relationship right now, and things are going great, and you’re having mind-blowing sex more often than you can almost keep up with, guess what? One of these days, it’s not going to be that crazy. As is the case with any relationship, soon enough the spark is dulled a bit — as in, you’re not trying to rip the clothes off of each other’s bodies 18 times a day — but you still adore the person. And that’s where a good helping of sex tips come in.

You see, it’s not terrible having to resort to sex tips. What happens after a few months of crazy sex with someone is that the normal goings-on inside of your two bodies just isn’t doing all of the work for you guys anymore. Which means it’s time to actually use your mind when it comes to the act of fornication, rather than just letting your animal instincts take over. So today, to get that mind lubed up, we turn towards the folks over at Men’s Health, where they have a list of various sex tips that will get you all hot and bothered again. Among the best tips they offer are these duo:

No. 4 Mindfulness
Women are more likely than men to be distracted while having sex. Canadian research found that by focusing on the sights, sounds, and feelings of sex, women have greater desire and arousal.

No. 5 Coital Alignment Technique
This position?the man shifts forward to press the base of his penis against her clitoris?can make it easier for her to have an orgasm.

Head on over to the link to check out the rest of the tips and also read a bit about the reasons that the author is giving for trying to find himself some sex tips. It may hit close to home.