Must-Read: What She Thinks About the Land Down Under

And when we head off a post with the phrase “land down under,” you can be pretty goddamn sure that we’re not talking about Australia. No, instead what we’re speaking of, as if we needed to explain to our bright audience, is the act of a lady going downstairs on the ol’ house of a human body and giving her man some pleasure. A BJ, in other words. One of the greatest wonders of the human world.

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But while we, the men receiving them, mostly enjoy them — and if you are one of the men who, for some reason, do NOT enjoy them, please state clearly and slowly why that is in the comments below — we only know our own minds. All too often we forget about the minds and desires of the other person in the act. So today, we’re heading over to AskMen.com where they have an essayfrom a lady about what her concerns and feelings are when it comes to giving the most intimate of acts. For example, she says:

Let’s Go Back In Time For A Second

Remember when you were young, awkward and just starting to learn about sex? Your penis wasn?t what it is today, sex lasted about 50 seconds and your kissing skills were comparable to those of a goldfish. Remember that terrible time? We have all been there. For better or worse — and usually it?s for worse — our early sexual experiences shape a lot of our deep inner fears, pitfalls and insecurities about sex as adults. In high school, many girls felt pressure to give blow jobs whether they wanted to or not, as a logical precursor to having intercourse. For that reason, a lot of women associate giving a beej to feeling somewhat powerless. Some of us get over it; some of us don?t. Just remember that, and don?t be afraid to talk to your partner.

Head over to the link to check out some more vital tips.