Must-Read: Things Not To Say To The Ladies
We spend a decent of time here telling you what to say to girls, how it will change their opinion of you, and how it can help your chances in the dating scene. But that’s only half of the information. The other half is what NOT to say to the girls. One bad slip and you could be submarining your chances right off the bat, not allowing anything to actually fester and develop with the girl. As no doubt everyone reading this has already experienced, we’re always just one slip away from going home alone for the night.
But how do you know what NOT to say? Is there some kind of, oh let’s say, list of items not to bring up with the ladies? Great you asked, everyone! In fact, today we’re linking to this great article from the guys over at Men’s Fitness where they give us a list of the 10 worst things to say to women, and then go through exactly why that is. This one was the most shocking to us, for a variety of reasons:
“You’re right, Heather did look hot tonight.”
She won’t freak out right away. But the instant you make a positive comment about the physical appearance of her friend, that thought will be double-encrypted on her hard drive forever. Feel free to tell her that her friends are cool or funny or nice?that can actually score you points. Just avoid any references to her best friend’s phenomenal rack even if it is, in fact, phenomenal.
Stay away from that, and the other pieces of dialogue they tell you to, and you’re winning half of the battle right there.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Rick Mosely Rick is the editor for TSB magazine.