Must-Read: More(!) Sex(!) Secrets(!)!

We’ve already well-established our position when it comes to the massive bandwidth and space on Men’s websites and magazines devoted to the art of being better at sex. Basically, yes, they are helpful in many ways. But there’s just so many goddamn sex tips and “secrets to make her orgasm” out there, that it’s a bit overwhelming when actually trying to get legitimate advice for the bedroom. So, when people email them to us, or we stumble upon them ourselves, in way more cases than not we tend to simply ignore it and move on. It’s truly a case of too many cooks in the kitchen.

Get her off

Which is why we were shocked when we headed over to Men’s Health and found some sex tips that were actually (gasp!) helpful! The article’s entitled “12 Sex Secrets Women Wish You Knew”and it’s all about that glorious time at trying to please her. (Because then, you know, she’d be more interested in actually having sex with you again.) All of the tips are worth checking out, but it’s this one that caught our eye:

In her survey, more than 90 percent of women were able to reach orgasm when their partners used only oral and manual stimulation. Here’s the rub: Fifty-two percent of the women we surveyed said they’ve made a guy stop because they were afraid of taking too long.

So how can you be sure she’s not letting you off easy? “Say ‘I love doing this, I could do this all day. Are you sure you want me to stop?’ ” Whipple says.

If you’re the one worried about 20-plus minutes of exhausting tongue-lapping, though, “don’t go faster?it won’t make her reach orgasm sooner,” Cox says. “If anything, slow down. The gentler and slower and more consistent you are, the quicker she’ll arrive.”

Got that, guys? Going faster’s not going to make it happen any faster! Head over to the link above for some more great tips.