Must-Read: Sex Moves Reconsidered

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We all have our go-to moves when it comes to sex. Some like to start in certain positions, others like to finish in certain positions, while other enjoy an occasional exotic location – like the shower or the car – every now and then. The thing is, even with these exotic locales, many of them have already been done before. Once you get to a certain age, and have had a certain amount of sex in your life, the urge to try something new kind of leaves you. You know what you want, you know what she wants, so why not just get into it already?

Wrong.

Luckily, Men’s Health is here to get us out of our stagnation. They have a compelling little article that’s really a must-read for everyone about a variety of new sex positions you got to try out. They aren’t the completely insane positions either, where you spend the next day questioning whether or not the previous night means something about your sexuality on a grander scale. Instead, they’re just tweaks on old moves.

For example, instead of just “finding her g-spot” try this:

Do this instead: Play the piano
Instead of trying to push a single button, so to speak, think about broadening your coverage. “The sensitive area can be higher, lower, or to the side, and its size can vary from that of a pinky fingernail to a 50-cent coin,” Fulbright says. You should also tailor your technique?speed, pressure, and angle of approach?to the woman you’re with. “For some women, a massaging motion might be better; for others, tapping might work best,” she says. “Put your index and middle finger into the area and rock them back and forth. Keep your fingers flat and straight, and vary your pressure.” Pretend you’re playing two keys on a piano, Fulbright suggests, but without curving your fingers.

The whole article is worth a look. Head over there post haste!