The Secret To Giving Women Orgasms

How To Fix Your Deficits

Let me share a few email from men who SUCK in bed:

Dan,

I really hope you can help me out here, I?ve been married for ten years now and my wife doesn?t even seem interested in sex anymore. I?ve tried everything, and it seems like the harder I try the less interested she is. I?ve tried asking her how she likes it, if she came afterwards, what I could have done better, and anything else I can think of to make it better for her.

What am I doing wrong?

Jaime

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Dan, I have a weird bedroom situation on my hands here that I?d like your take on. I always try to make sex with my girlfriend as good as possible for her (always caring for her pleasure, making it very romantic and cuddly). I am a very good lover, but lately I have run into some difficulty. I?ve been wanting her to give me a blowjob, but she tells me that ?she doesn?t do that.? She is by no means a slutty kind of girl (she?s the kind you?d want to marry). But, how can I show her that it?s OK to do it with me?

Jackson

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MY RESPONSE:

Both of these men are missing one CRITICAL thing from their sex lives, which is preventing them from giving women orgasms. And I?m glad I got these emails, because 95% of men in the world are missing this in the bedroom as well. And that one thing is DOMINANCE.

Here?s the deal: society brainwashes men to into thinking that women want a polite, respectful, tame man who asks for permission before he does anything in the bedroom.

But this is a complete and utter LIE.

Even though women never TELL you they?re sexually aroused by dominant guys, REALITY tells a different story. Why is it that the most beautiful women consistently end up with jerks who treat them like crap? And why is it that nice guys who treat women with respect and politeness always end up sleeping on the couch? Here?s a clue: it?s not because women love being treated like crap. They HATE being treated like crap outside the bedroom just as much as you or me.

But INSIDE the bedroom, women are powerful and irresistibly aroused my dominant men. Men who know how to dominate them, to TAKE them, can make them turned on in ways which tame, housebroken ?nice guys? can?t.? And this sexual pleasure only dominant men can give them is so addictive, women are willing to put up with poor treatment or even ABUSE to get it.

Now, I?m not saying that you have to be a jerk to be great in bed. In fact, the opposite is true. If you can be the Dominant guy she fantasizes about INSIDE the bedroom, and treat her well OUTSIDE the bedroom, you?ll be like a dream come true for her. And if you know how to dominate her in the right way, then it won?t be disrespectful or degrading. Although you will be dominating and ?possessing? her, in a higher sense you will be HONORING her by giving her the sexual pleasure she deeply needs.

This is why I feel most of the mainstream sex books out there aren?t fit to wipe your ass with. It doesn?t matter how many different sex techniques you know ? if you?re not Dominant in bed, she?s not going to be interested.

So, to the two men who emailed me:

Jaime ? here?s what you need to do. Stop being some a goddamn nice guy in bed. It is making her vagina dry up like the Sahara desert. Stop pestering her with annoying questions, and instead one day come home, throw her on the bed, and rip her panties off. Whisper in her ear that her pussy belongs to you, and that you?re going to make her cum over and over again. You?ll find something surprising happens ? she actually wants to have sex with you! This is because now sex is something wild and exciting, rather than a mundane marital chore.

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Jackson ? Drop the ego. And I?m saying this to help you. If you can?t even get you to give you a blowjob, you have a lot to learn. For now, what I want you to do is to temporarily stop making sex so cuddly and romantic. Now I think romance in the presence of Dominance is actually a huge TURN ON for women, but you?ve been ONLY romantic with no Dominance. This is a nauseating turn-off for women. To learn to be Dominant, focus on ONLY giving her Dominance during sex for the next few months. And be OK with doing this. There is nothing wrong with a woman who wants to be dominated. It is a natural healthy human desire, and a hallmark of a quality relationship partner. Once you start doing this, you?ll find that suddenly she?s eager to suck your cock. And then once you combine romance with your new found Dominance, she?ll be orgasming over and over again for you.

**SO HERE?S THE BOTTOM LINE FOR YOU**

You NEED to learn how to be Dominant in bed to give women orgasms. This doesn?t involve disrespecting women or treating them like a jerk, just having the courage to fulfill their secret wild sexual desires. But you can?t just decide to ?be Dominant? anymore than you can instantly decide to ?be confident.? You have to learn the SKILLS to become the Dominant guy she fantasizes about.

And that?s exactly why you should pick up a copy of the Sex God Method. It is the definitive guide to becoming sexually Dominant. I devote an entire section of the book to it, and show you over THIRTY different ways to turn her on through Dominance. What?s more, all of these ways have been tested by me and many of my students to work EVERY time. That means that there?s ZERO chance of rejection for you, and an almost certain odds that you?ll give her the wildest orgasms of her life.

And of course, this is only the beginning, I also give you an entire ARSENAL of sexual skills in addition to Dominance which you can use to rock her world in bed.