Secrets of Threesomes, One Night Stands, and How to Know When “It’s On”

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Psych talks to us today about threesomes, one night stands, and judging how open a woman is to these sort of things.

1. What is the secret to achieving the mystical ?threesome? that most guys will only fantasize about?

The real secret to having threesomes is amazingly simple … have a girl in ?the know?. What I mean by this is use a girl you?ve already slept with to help you find and game another girl into doing a threesome. When I?d go out to game with a girl who was helping me, sometimes I almost had to do nothing except provide a fun time, show that I?m sexual, and handle the logistics. Often times I wouldn?t even have to open! I remember one specific time where my girl went into the bathroom and then came back with a girl on each arm looking at me to choose which one I wanted.

Every girl that helps will be different though. While some will do all the work for you, others will only aid you and it?s up to you to do the real work. Also in order to have a girl willing to do a threesome it?s important to frame things correctly from the start. Make sure you?re strictly sex buddies or in an open relationship, that she?s bisexual or bi-curious, and that you?ve discussed sexual fantasies and have brought up the idea of threesomes to her.

Once you have your wing girl it?s the same game as always, except now you?re getting the target to be into you as a couple and not just one or the other. Typically I?d do things where I take a picture of the girls kissing and then have a three way kiss to get the ball rolling. Also having your wing girl do conspiracy theories where she secretly brags about your sexual prowess to the target and they plan to seduce you is a lot of fun.

The most important thing however is to know what to watch out for. The number one problem that can occur is jealousy. Even if your wing girl says she?s open to a threesome when it?s in the moment she may have second thoughts and not want to share. So make sure to treat your wing girl as another target instead of a wing. Yes she?s going to be helping you out but make sure to divide the attention equally and always put your wing girl first. It?s also usually best to let your wing girl decide on who the target is because she may not be into your choice and that will ruin the threesome. The last thing is alcohol at the club or back at your place allows the girl some plausible deniability to avoid feeling like a slut.