How to be an Alpha Male

Alpha male is sort of a buzz word in the community.  Every body is telling you that you need to act more alpha, or have the alpha attitude.  But what exactly defines an alpha male”?

Below are some quotes from various Mystery Method instructors about what defines an alpha male.  These quotes have some great practical advice contained within them.

What Makes an Alpha Male by Braddock, Mr. M, and Sheriff

• Alpha males dont look at the world to determine their behavior, or wait for social clues. They take their frame of reference from inside; they are authentic.
• The approval or disapproval of others dont matter. None of that changes how an alpha male views his decisions or actions.
• An alpha male is a rock while a woman is an emotional rollercoaster.
• Dont be affected by what a woman says.  If you value yourself more than any woman, it doesnt matter what she says or does.
• Dont determine how you feel by how other people react.
• real alpha male appreciates approval, but doesnt need it.  He doesnt care what you think.
• Make yourself the center “ the world around you is just part of your reality.
• Become a master of recognizing self-deception.  Be honest with yourself all the time.
• Dont be hurt by being blown out; see it as a way to improve. Take the frame that a blow out doesnt affect your value but you can learn from it.
• You are the biggest barrier to your success. An alpha male doesnt have these barriers to stop him, or he understands them and gets passed them.
• Being alpha doesnt necessarily mean always being unreactive.  You have to relate to the real world.
• Set your boundaries and be the person you want to be.  The alpha male controls his reality.
• An alpha male is someone who makes others feel comfortable around him.  He operates from a position of strength.
• Dont be desperate to be respected.  Respect yourself and be effective in what you do.
• Self-deception is the main barrier.  Alphas dont react.
• Master your emotions, dont eliminate them.
• Actions determine beliefs.  Live in your own reality.  Own it.

All of the best advice from these MM instructors on growing your game can be found in the groundbreaking book Magic Bullets.

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