This girl is giving you golden advice…

I was going through the comments today and I came across two left by a girl going by the name of Athena. The first one was some great advice so I proceeded to read the second one. After reading the second one I decided that I should repost it to the blog for everyone to see and read if you were not subscribed to the post.

This one is from the first post More Signs Your GIrlfriend is Cheating

athena on January 28th, 2008 9:31 am

i agree with another article here that said cheating is an event, not a character trait. BUT, i've done a LOT of questioning about this with other girls and have figured out that there are some character traits that make her more likely to cheat. they arent death sentences, but its good to keep an eye out for these habits before you get too far.
1- she hates to be alone. basically, she WANTS to break up with you, but is too wimpy to do it without someone else to jump to.
2- she cant call a spade a spade. if she hates to see the ugly truths, she will stay in a relationship she shouldnt. this leads to cheating.
3- she lies to herself. you can see this when what she says and what she does dont match up – and she doesnt notice. she actually BELIEVES the lies she is telling you.
4- she is too focused on guilt or obligation. i know it seems weird that a girl who feels guilty about everything would do something so guilt-worthy. im sure there is some psycho-babble reason for it, but its enough to know the connection is there.

thats the best i got, hope it helps, dragon!

This comment was on the second post 3 Tips For Getting Your Female Friend to Fall For You

athena on January 28th, 2008 9:00 am

if you want to flirt AND still act like you wouldnt touch her, you have to pretend its just a joke. laugh about it a lot. if you like to flirt heavy, make it like a game. you can play the “make her blush game all day!
you see, flirting has more to offer than just hitting on someone. it can be fun, or entertaining, for practice, or whatever. just find something else that it offers and pretend THATS the only reason you are flirting with her.
remember to keep your distance. DO NOT get disappointed if you cant hang out with her, and dont always be available every single time she wants to see you. dont EVER kiss her ass, or talk like she is greater than you. be nice, just dont put her on a throne or act like she is out of your league. hope that helps!

Remember, your hearing this from a girl…