Day #31: Run a SWOT Analysis on Yourself
You made it to the final day.
That’s saying a lot. You won’t believe how many guys give up and quit.
Glad to see you’re not like them.
I am strong believer that if you want something bad enough. And are willing to put the time in.
You’ll get it.
Found that to be true in pretty much every area of life.
Persistent action = success
I’m still learning.
I’m still reading books.
I’m still scheming and strategizing
And I’ll probably never stop.
I enjoy it too much. And its gotten me so much I’ve wanted out of life.
SWOT Analysis
Your task today is to run a SWOT Analysis on yourself.
A SWOT analysis is a tool that’s been used forever in business (and other areas)
It allows you to take a look at your Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats..
It’s a simple process.
But it will give a clear understanding of what is next for you.
You’ve gone through 31 days of training.
You learned things that most guys will NEVER know.
You have two choices now.
1. Refine, Perfect, and Master this knowledge to get everything you want out of life (more women 🙂
2. Store this knowledge in the back of your brain and go back to doing what you always done.
It’s an easy decision.
You’ve come this.
Why stop so close to the finish line?
So, this how you apply a SWOT analysis to your own life.
1. Define Your Mission and Goals
Before you carry out you SWOT it’s important to know what your goals are.
Do you want to find a girlfriend? Date a ton of women? Date a model? Just happy to lose your virginity?
Only you know what your mission is.
Write it down.
2. List Your Strengths
What attributes do you have that will help you achieve your goals?
What do you have going for you? What are your strong points with approaching, dating, and relationships?
What resources and assets do you have at your disposal? WHat can you do better than anyone see?
3. List your Weaknesses
What’s holding you back from achieving these goals?
What skills do you still not have to be a successful player in this game?
What could or should you improve upon yourself?
What is distracting you from your goals?
What additional training might you need?
I HIGHLY Recommend that you take my free training: 3 Steps to Status, Power, and Charisma
4. List Your Opportunities
Where is opportunity presenting itself? Is there a local club/group you can join?
Is there a girl just dying for you to make your move?
Did an old fling show back up in your life? Did a new girl move in the apartment across the hall?
Is there a part time job you should get to meet new people?
5. List Your Threats
What external things are hindering you from achieving your goals?
Are you working too much and too tired to game?
Do you have friends that hold you back?
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Think of strengths and weaknesses as an internal factor… while opportunities and threats are external factors.
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6. Analyze Your Reflection and Generate Strategies
Take some time and figure out a strategy for what’s next?
Like I said, you’ve come far. Don’t stop now.
How can you make the most of your opportunities?
How can you bring your weakness to an end?
How can you turn weakness into a strength. Or a threat into an opportunity?
7. Plan to Do Something and Do It
Translate your findings into an action plan and begin to implement it.
I’ve been doing SWOT analysis on myself for the last four years. It always provides me clarity.
Its gets me motivated to move forward.
Here’s a complete list of all the lessons from the past 31 days. Complete 31 Days Training
So what’s next?
Let’s keep in touch…
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And this won’t be the last hear you from…
My journey is far from over. And I’m always up for sharing what I learn along the way.
Make it Happen!
Bobby Rio
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Bobby, I hope you are making a ton of money, you deserve it. Best money dollar for dollar I have ever spent. I am in my early 70s and I am now involved with more young girls than I know what to do with…LOL. What a way to spend my golden years!
Suggestion to men in my situation and from personal experience with the younger women I date. Communicate to your women that for their sake you are not going to make any overt expressions of affection in public and you may introduce them to waitresses/bartenders/and others as either your daughter or a friend of the family. (It is acceptable for them to take your arm, gentleman thing to do). They will thank you for it. Keeps John/Jane Q Public from staring and making your public outing uncomfortable for your date. I know it boosts one’s ego to have men stare in envy, however the date will thank you for it, maybe. I say maybe, because I have dated women that have told me “f&%k them”, because they love the looks older women give them and the attention from other men in the room.
Note: A “friend” just turned me on to the best sex lube ever. I used to swear by AstoGlide, now I switched to Swiss Navy, both water based. Good fortune to you from here on out.
Bye for now, Nick
wow they have been great 31 days i just updated my game thanks BOBBY
Hey Bobby thanks for all you’ve shared with us! I’ve learned so much from you in such a short time. My goal is to hook up with a co-worker that has shown signs that she’s into me. My issue is that we are both married. What advice would you give me in this type of situation? Please help. I don’t want to end up in the friend zone. Thanks again!
Hey Bobby, thanks for all of the lessons. I have learned a lot. I have a quick question. I messaged a girl online (on a dating site) and she said, “Are you negging me?” This was a first contact so I was not that invested in her. My reply was: That’s cute ;). I would like to know how to handle this in the future as this girl never messaged back and I didn’t message her either as I chose to keep my power. Thanks
Thank You Bobby !!! I cant believe but for me was this total change. As i see now i made probably all mistakes a men can do with girls. From focus on one particular girl…i chase her….. recipe for disaster guaranted ! And the whole world now that only jerk repeat same thing more and more times and anticipate diferent result……..
And now suddenly like a domino effect more and more girls they ‘want something’ from me. Ok i now i must study and practice a lot. this is only begining… but one more time i must say i cant believe it. It´s like a miracle but real !
Thank You again!
p.s. sorry for my grammar, my english language is on poor basic level.
Hey Bobby I’ve learned to raise the level of my gaming…and as a result…I’m only getting involved with hot women…no explanations or excuses ever again…good bye to the Plain Janes of this world lol!
Bobby, I’ve been following your advice for a couple months now and it’s great. Looks like I’ve got 2 great and beautiful girlfriends to show for our work. Thanks!
Hi Bobby, Thank you for your sage advice and also by leading by example.
I must admit I was at first sceptical , I have been on a few dates with limited success, and with reflection, I had to agree with bobby, that the whole process is a seduction. with that in mind, does make the process easier to get your head around.
The lesson regarding emotional quick sand was in my opinion the single biggest ar ha moment for me.
My goal is to have a girlfriend leading to a permanent relationship, this hasn’t happened yet, however I met this attractive lady and I immediately put the principals’ to use, I am careful to keep the interaction FUN and flirty, and bugger me it works!!!
First time ever this lady is chasing me, she calls me!! that has never happened before.
Its early days yet, however I am quietly confident.
Thanks Guys..
thanks Bobby
wonderful month, and hope to use it to create far more positive encounters and eliminate anyone with negative/dysfunctional characteristics quickly. As you said, they have to earn your nice side.
Cheers
thanks for the feedback!
Just want shout out how useful this has been for me, certain bits more than other but it really has shown me what I am capable of doing if I put my mind and effort towards if, it has also brought up some challenges I realised I need to accept and face now which could be even harder. but if I keep going over what I have learnt from here it will improve my life in a big way so thank you for a really amazing 31 days.
Thank you Bobby, I’ve gottin a lot out of what you talked about. I’ve been practicing as many the technique as I can remember during the days. And the plan out work! Thank you friend and I will see you on the beaches of the world
I had pretty solid game before but now… with all your knowledge… I am gaming chicks like mad. This is pure madness. Great stuff Bobby man, thanks is just not enough. Bro, you’re the shit!
how to know that the girl i m dating had already a boyfriend ??
plz answer anyone .
Hi Bobby! Thank you for all you help. In the begining of the 31 day callange i thought I knew everything and just wanted to polish my skills. but it turns out that there is alot more that i could learn. I even bought the conversation escelation before i read the 31 day challange, and now i feel like i dont even need it anymore. But im going to listen to it anyway just to be completely ontop of my game…..my weakness was focus and running into awkward silences, but with all the skills i’ve learnt, those days are long gone and i now use those silences to my advantage.
ps. Merry Xmas everyone!!
Persistance equals success. Pure gold.
Hey Bobby you have changed my life! Been reading your e mails for a while & implementing all I’ve learnt! Women now come up to me telling me how ‘hot’ I am! Few months ago landed a ’10’ a gorgeous proffesional successful woman who now tels me she’s in love with me! Still not put her on a pedestal & our relationship is amazing! All down to you bro! Everything you teach is 100% spot on! Wishing you all the best man & thank you so so much!
Hi Bobby,
Thank you very much for yours lessons . I have learned a lot during this lab training .
I am very sorry not participating to the training but english is a foreign language for me and it take me more time to assimilate your lessons and morever I was very busy .
I don’t continue the lessons now but in the future I will be interested by another products you create for men . Still send me advertisements and when I will be ready I will start another program .
Thank You very much Bobby .
Richard
this blog give me the right information for what i am asking for.. so keep helpng the people who are in problem…
Is giving me the right information for what i am asking for……..
Thanks to these lessons, my eyes have been open to see a side of women that i never thought they had. and going inside their brains really does give a man a huge advantage, especially when you know that their open to play the game! i hope there’s more to come, Bobby. You’re doing a male community a huge favor!
Hey man, I just want to thank you so much for you advices! I got a sweet girlfriend, and I have the control of our relationship! 😀 Your advices are magical man! Again, thank you so much!
Hoi Bobby
I am interested in the 6 months training lab. And I would like to
know if it includes the makesmalltalksexy and the texting programme,
And are there also lessons on fashion?
Cheers,
Thank you bobby! you helped me a lot in this journey, I’m now introduced into a new world! where girls seem a lot more achievable, I can now sit back and laugh at my emo friends who their bad relationships are destroying their lives. Now I hit on girls regularly and its fills my life with joy as I get positive results.
@bobby
hi thanx for all ur help but i had a big problm i am not been able to watch the videos as all of ur videos arre in flash form .please make it su h that i could download it.
Hey there!
Thanks a lot bobby, I really learned a lot from you since I find out about your site, I joined your mailing list. So no regrets.
Hey Bobby,
No lie man, you are probably the most straightforward expert in this field. Not only that, but your advice in this course has been heartfelt and said from experience which you do well with your stories as referencing. I have learned a lot about not only the aspects of attracting women but also how to better myself and ultimately create the mindset that will allow me to live the lifestyle I want to live. Thank you so much. That being said, will this 31 Day Course be enough for me to move forward and start living? Because in all honesty, I’m a college student working one day a week so I don’t really have that much money at all, lol.
Thanks,
Nick
Hey thanx bobby , found your programme to be just wonderful. You are a really great teacher!! Hv seen improvement with girls and am still practicing and workimg. Thnx a lot!!
This is definitely the best thing I’ve read! Covers areas that I’ve always been confused about and I’m already seeing the results 😀 don’t think anything was missing from this 31 day guide.
Keep up the good work Bobby
thanx Bobby I am grateful for you
OK, it’s been half a year, so you may have solved or lost the moment, but for next time, and everybody else who struggles, here is my view:
If the kids are making trouble and take her attention away, guess what they want? Attention! Kids are so nicely honest.
So how can you take control and make your girl smile when she thinks of you?
Give attention to her kids. Become their best friend, yet remain in control (so not being a wussy who does everything they ask for, not with girls and not with kids). Play with her kids and make sure they have fun. If they have fun, she has fun; if she has fun, she’ll give you some 😉
Examples to get you started?
Play a game with the kids and mommy (boardgame, card game, ‘I see what you don’t and it’s ….’, mind games, jokes). Monopoly, poker (they’ll beat you), funny stories, it all works. Remember, you’re on the playground and in total control.
This will do many good things for you.
1) The kids will love you and ask when you’re coming over again (guess what mommy’s gonna feel about you now)
2) You’ll show you’re great with kids (and sooner or later, your relationship is gonna go in that direction)
3) You are in control, yet kind to your…. ‘subjects’ 😉 A true leader/alpha dog!
4) You will take some heat from the kids (they can be quite exhausting), meaning mum has more time and energy for you!
Good luck, hope it helps, give some feedback 🙂
Great program Bobby! Ive already learned a shit ton from you and i cant thank you enough! The girl im interested in right now is drifting away and i need to pull her back! Any ideas? -Ethan
Good program, Bobby!
Apparently my subconscious has been listening. I saw a smokin hot girl at the bar last night, bought her a shot, found her on the dancefloor and told her I’d trade her the shot for a kiss on the lips. I never thought I’d have the balls to try something like that for a first line. Then my drunk ass woke up with her still in my bed, breaking the daylight rule, so I sent her packing.
If i had money to buy the rest of the good stuff, id really be a problem for other pick up artist lmao 😀 😉
Bobby Rio, thanks u so much for ur knowledge, i thought i was a hit with the ladies b4, now im unstoppable,the past month has been unbelievable, so many girls and women, had to start sharing 😉 :), finally found a girl thats wifey material, been 2 weeks this stuff is the shit, Got her on lock ;), again goodk looks bro, and God bless u man, deuces
Thanks bro
I’ve bought most of ur products n now my game has completely changed.
Am at the moment flirting with 3 girls but have not closed the deal with any of them yet. They respond well when I escalate. Works like magic. Keep up the good work.
Hey Bobby
i was talking to a girl on a online dating site.
and i was playing the question answer game with her..
and everything was going fine but suddenly,
when i asked her this question
“on a cold night if she is with the guy she likes but not in a relationship will she start to flirt first”
she went all out at me and said
“i know what are your trying to do so back off”
after that she has not replied.
now i have 3 questions.
Question 1: when ever some thing like this how should i react?
Question 2: should i try to talk it out, or should i move on?
Question 3: what did i do wrong? cause before that everything was going smooth.
i even asked her what was riskiest place where she kissed her boy friend and she was fine with it.
I took it this far… still there is attraction pending..
should i go according to regular approaching
or
now its time to show my good side cause, u have got me confused here and you are the one who is going to take me out.
Dont try to force her into being your girlfriend… create the attraction. and slowly “lure” her in..
Just because she’s says she’s not ready for doesn’t mean she isn’t.
hey bobby need your help right now man….
there is this girl i was talking on facebook she in my social circle, i took her on the emotional roller coaster in the end she reveled her self saying that she is single but she can’t handle relationships so she tells everyone she is committed.
but when i asked her to become my girl friend she is reluctant. i tried to motivate her but she is not getting ready for it.
should i wait.
what are the chances of success.
There are many girls who have said.. they like my style of talking , and even said i am a smooth talker…
I realy Learned a lot from your matterial and you there were things that, i used to think in my mind and prove my self to be a good guy and all that thing, and now i know it doesn’t matter what matters is how m i gonna take the control of the situation, i used to get shy, needed things to start a conversation but now I am different.
I am a different and a better person now, I am persistent, shameless, open to talk , i have a spine of my own
in short now I can confidently say Now when ever there is a hot chick before me, i am always my self rather then being a spineless bitch who counts in her fan list.
Thanks a lot bobby.
thanks bobby could not have done this without you
hey bobby bro
u r so motivational dear u realize me that how the hidden facts in man can be evaluate
u r guru
t c bobby
Bobby,
Thank you very much from learning all the stuffs I felt I have improved my whole value and made me a complete man, at this point I’m getting positive results. Hope you continue the great works.
Bobby, You are really the man. Nothing like recapitulations in the final day! You just keep surprising us until the very end!
Thanks Bobby for all the lessons you’ve thaught me.You are a great man,helping guys like me doing better with women and improving my whole life.
Take good care and keep in touch.I know I will be folowing you on Facebook.
good job done, am moving to the next level
Thanks for the feedback Issac.
you can know how much I learnd and how easily ; and the most important it`s that i learnd about miself when I stop thrying to please
P.S: You know you are international! I`m from Spain and all was perfect except somo words or phrases I need to loock to the google traductor.
hey bobby rio just want to thank you for lesson it really helped me alot. my main problem is i feel like i can get any women frankly i cant i have learned alot but i cant apply them in real life
please help
hey bobby,
i couldn’t need anything more to what I’ve just learn’t from u…i now have babes wanting to be with me like all the time and hav scroowed like 6 of them so far.
Gday Bobby.
Ive recently started hanging out with a girl who I’ve started to get feelings for.
The problem is she has 2 young children and we have only been hanging out at her place and Im having trouble putting your teachings into practice as the kids are always around and running amuck and taking her away her full attention.
What advice would you give to make a move on her and take things further?
Great to hear man! As I come up with new material and insights I’ll be sure to send them over.
Hey, awesome lessons man. I only have lessons 1-19 in my e-mail, but fortunately I found a way to bypass the system 😛 don’t worry I won’t tell anyone! Anyways, Bobby Rio has helped me improve my game, and now there are a lot of girls flirting with me all the time! I still haven’t sealed the deal, but it’s only been 19 days 😛 Thank you Bobby, and hope to keep in touch!
Thanks soo much man!! Ive learned a lot about women, game and even about myself, couldn’t have improved without you, will deffinately keep in touch!
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