Day #21: Weekly Review

You demonstrated much of what you teach in your handling of Shawn, (real confident, non threatened man response, boundaries). As a man in his 7th decade whose only passion is beautiful young women, I use all the info you offer, some new and much validation of what I practiced when I was a pup. I’m a very practical realist whose hourglass sand is running low, so I have to use what I have to INITIALLY get what I want. I use “arrangement” sites to meet the women I am looking for. Fact: The age difference vanishes the first time we are intimate. IMO most young women have been programed to repel the advances of a much older man, but inwardly once introduced to a true gentleman, they relish the experience. I am very selective. While 99% of women on these sites are hookers or gold diggers, I have found many diamonds in the rough. Really beautiful, sweet, down to earth women, who due to circumstances are looking for a little financial support. Note: realistically all men are going to pay for play, whether it is a nice dinner, trip, night out, etc. In my case you “negotiate” up front and believe me it allows you to loosen up your conversation and focus on and enjoy your dinner! I have never had a problem when I use the techniques in your material. I am very astute and if you listen, you find out very quickly where they are coming from. The women I select don’t want diamonds, they need school tuition, rent, or help with a car payment, (I pay the bill directly with my credit card so I am assured the money is going for what they say they need). All my selections are monogamous during our arrangement. This is easily realized when looking at their time restraints of school, work, children that they have very little free time. The thing I offer, and I point out to them up front, is not only are they receiving extra financial support, but in their very little precious free time they receive some very pleasurable “me time” with an attentive, mature, humorous, sexually experienced gentleman. I am also upfront and tell them my two unbreakable rules, which I also commit to. One, never lie, not even a “white” lie. Two, don’t disrespect me. Violate either of these rules and I will be in the wind with no explanation. In general, after our initial get together, instead of a simple “can’t make it” text, I receive a detailed explanation with chapter and verse, along with an offered alternative. Note: During our initial negotiation I explain I may not be offering the level of financial reward they are used to and I require that they spend more time than normal on a date with me, but I also point out that they will discover they will be getting a much greater emotional and physical reward then many have ever experienced in an arrangement. I have never had one ask me to disappear after an initial encounter. I have only been burned once and honestly…It was worth every penny.

Hey Bobby, you have developed a very nice program which can teach a 70 year old dog like me new tricks. I agree with all the basic concepts you have outline but have to say that my target audience, i.e., women in their 60s requires a somewhat modified approach that is a little different from what today’s 30-40 year old age group expects. As you indicated before, one must customize and adjust the basic universal truths to ensure that attraction, connection and sexual desire are built and fueled properly.

As I start to internalize, use and get more comfortable with your program I’m confident that will help me get to where I want to be.

Been buying and reading your material, videos for a few weeks, finding it very hard to implement, massive barrier gotta work through, but I’m determined… big thinker, writing down the notes…. need to start doing. Pain is coming my way haha. Ok when talking about my own field.

What up bobby, nice lessons you got here. I’ m enjoying them. I was trying to get help with something in the forum but no one answers. So I give it a shot here. I was going out with this girl using your stuff. Everything was cool and suddenly she got cold. Obviously her ex came back. She told me the classic, I feel asphyxiated, we can still go to movies as friends, I have no problem with that, bullshit. I told her, I still like her, and I’m still interested on her, and she was like, ok, lets go out again. I didn’t text her until two days later, and she was all cute. Yesterday I texted her back, she was cold, so her ex was there I guess. Now I’m planning on dissapering a bit. The thing is, from saturday’s chat I feel she still likes me. Would you do the 14 days back off in this case? Do you feel it can work?

Hey Bobby!

I got the link to this page from my email but I don’t see ay day 21 material. Everything up to and including day 20 is here but the email also said:

“Today you’re going to be learning about the
four possible roles a woman puts you into
upon meeting.

Only one of them is good.

Day #21: Weekly Review & 4 Roles”

I don’t get any “4 Roles” stuff on this page or any video. I’ve tried it in two different browsers as well. Is there a separate link to the video you can send me perhaps?

Love your stuff!
Matt

Hey Bobby,

The link on yesterdays post didnt work to see Race’s material. Can you please shoot us a updated link?

shawn go fuck ur self.

Just checking if this is a real blog. 🙂

bobby. You could do a little less generalized conversing and more to the subject at hand by giving more specific examples that convey the point that are trying to make. This would a more effective method than lengthy generalized discussion!

hey bobby you say there is a video for this weeks recap but i never showed up i mean i didnt check my mail till today because i was in New york did the video get taken down if so can you send it to my inbox?

Hey

Just thought I’d say… Both of you are probably right, the truth is somewhere in the middle. Teachers should also never forget to try and learn from the feedback of their students.

Aside the point, thanks for the set. Having studied this stuff for a few years already, not so much of it is new, so I’m not getting as much as I probably would if I were more of a newbie, but still, there have been some interesting bits. 🙂 I definately liked the Vin DiCarlo escalation ladder. Although I’ve known it instinctively for a long time, seeing it out in writing makes it even clearer.

Also, some of the simple ideas are ones you can never read enough times, like that it’s your responsibility to escalate, every time. ALWAYS. I should have it somewhere on my wall, I think. 🙂

Keep up the good work and cheers from up north!
-Alex

yeah bobby, dont listen to the douche bags, your a ledge!!

hey bobby!

listen, i had to do all these a little after they started coming in (since my computer crashed for a couple of weeks), and i just arrived to this part.

unfortunatelly i can’t find any video,only links to revisions of the week.

any help would be apreciated thx.

and btw, keep up the great work, ur stuff is amazing , im sure if there is any stuff il buy when it comes to dating, its gona be urs and de priest !! 🙂

N.B.

Bobby,

personally, i love your stuff… keep up the great work man. And don’t listen to the haters.

PROBLEM:
your videos/podcasts have too much fluff. i dont have time to sit and listen to numerous stories with every detail painted to perfection.

SUGGESTION:
1) give a quick catchy anecdote. you dont 100 details, your not trying to evoke emotions in women. then move into your main points and content. the rest is well done.
2) you bore me by saying what you gonna talk about. deliver your message then sum up and review at the end. if you must give an outline, make it quicker and catchier

BTW:
your voice sounds really nerdy on my end, its hard to listen to. practice creating more tone, pitch is good.