Day #18: How to Get a Girl to Chase You (And Win the Game)
So first off, the long answer to this question is to review the Unlock the Scrambler seminar (if you don’t own it, what are you waiting for, grab it here), we cover the entire process in details.
But this lesson is for those who need a quick reminder about how to ignite the chase in a woman.
Ok.
So you followed yesterday’s advice. And you escalated. Got the kiss. Maybe closed the deal.
Here’s where a lot of guys go wrong and blow it.
I get dozens of emails from guys around the world wondering why some girl suddenly lost interest in them.
Once I get the details out of them it becomes crystal clear.
They gave their hand away way TOO SOON.
Have you ever had a girl who was once hot for you get cold and distant within a couple weeks?
If I had to guess why, I would say that you got too comfortable too quickly, and stopped PLAYING THE GAME.
I know I know.. we all hate ‘the game.’
But you have to play it.
Why?
Because women love going after a guy who is a challenge.
They love it.
—————————-Hint——————————
She’s not different. Stop telling yourself your situation is different. It’s not. “The Game” is supposed to feel unnatural.
A few years back I hooked up with a girl I had wanted for years. Then I got lazy. Thought she was “different”. It ended up with me getting the shit kicked out of me in a parking lot. If you ever got “crazy” over a girl… read this (LINK)
————————–/Hint——————————-
Women love not knowing what the deal is. Sure, they say they hate it. But they will keep chasing that feeling.
And when you don’t give them “the chase” they usually find another guy who isn’t so easy to figure out.
So how to do you stay a challenge?
For some of us its easy… If you’ve got a reputation around your social circle as a “player”, or are seen as having really high status by the girl, you don’t have the play ‘the game’ as hard.
THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU DON’T HAVE TO PLAY IT.
Trust me, I made that mistake. Sometimes I’ve even made the mistake of thinking I have to show a girl MORE interest because she thinks I’m a player and I need to prove I’m not.
Big Mistake.
The whole reason the girl liked you in the first place was because of your ‘player like’ qualities.
Don’t hide them, and don’t give in to the temptation to ‘drop the games.’
Here are the three biggest signs you are about to FUCK UP.
1. You start thinking “I don’t want to play games with this chick. I like her. Why can’t I just let her know?”
2. You think “This girl is different, I don’t have to play games with her.”
3. You think “She definitely likes me. We’re past the point I need to play games.”
The minute any of those thoughts creep into your mind, re-read this lesson. And DO NOT convince yourself that she is different.
SHE IS NOT DIFFERENT.
She wants to chase you. She wants a challenge. She wants a guy she can not completely figure out.
—-Bonus Video: 5 Traits That Make Her Chase You———–
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How to be a challenge.
A lot guys think that when I say you can’t express interest this means you can’t let a girl know you are attracted to her.
WRONG.
You HAVE to let her know you are attracted to her.
Express your sexual intent and attraction all you want.
That is perfectly fine.
But, do not let her know you want more than that. (for at least the first 3 or 4 months)
SHE CAN NOT KNOW YOU WANT HER AS A GIRLFRIEND.
You have to be stone cold impossible to read.
Every time she leaves you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.
Let her wonder.
(This is all taught step-by-step in The Scrambler)
———————Golden Nugget————————-
One of my favorite things to do at an end of a date or hanging out with a girl is to say “see you soon.”
This drives a girl crazy because she feels like you might be blowing her off and becomes afraid she will never see you again.
This is completely different then most guys who try to plan the next date before the first date ends.
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That is the art of the chase. The more time she sits around wondering what you’re doing… the more she begins to convince herself she is in love with you.
As David D once said “Give her the gift of missing you.”
Make it Happen,
Bobby Rio
P.S. There are 10 weapons of seduction… based off of different psychological principles that force a woman to feel a certain way. If you already own the Scrambler, I suggest reviewing it in the member’s area. If you don’t have the seminar yet, you can grab it here: Unlock the Scrambler seminar videos.
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Thank you.
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Been friends with this girl for 4 years, she knows how I feel and is going through a death in the family and a cheating boyfriend all in one month. She still talks to him and tells me she is getting over him and in the meantime when we hang out she tells me how sweet and nice I am and sometimes dirty talk. How do I handle this ?
Hi I would like to know how to fix the mistake of Not Having Played THe GAME with a girl and go back to the original situation in order to recover her back and make she chase and desire you. I behaved in a needy and not confident way with a Girl and now she is not do interested in me as in the beginning. Is it possible to revert this situation?
Please write an article about how to get a woman to leave you alone. It’s far more relevant to what men really want these days.
Divorced 6 months ago & had been out of dating for a long time.
The only 2 women that really liked so far and thought they were “different” and it was safe to let them know how I felt about them are both gone now AND it happened right after I stopped giving mixed signals and told them how crazy I was for them too soon.
I thought it was safe because of the passion that seemed mutual.
Ha!
You are so Freaking spot on!
I won’t make this mistake again.
Bless you!
HeY, i hav a girl who said she has a crush on me 2-3 weeks bak. I used to play hard to get with her. Then we met up we kissed nd made out a little. Then i dropped the hard to get act. We were texting everyday nd all seems to be well suddenly she gets mood of over something. After 4-5 days she tells me she thinks she is in luv with another guy. I acted casually nd we r still texting. Bt nw recently she is showing less interest to talk. Is their any advice to get the girl wanting me hard again as she used to?
Recently reconnected with a friend from high school 20 years prior. I went out on two dates with her. I felt like time stood still when were together. I flipped the rated R switch with her, and I let her know my sexual interested in her. On end of the second date, I got a kiss on the lips from her and she told me to let her know when I wanted to hang out with her again. So for a third dated I asked her to come over for dinner. She agreed and told me to text her and remind her during the week. I waited 4 days then I text her just to see if she was still coming. She asked what was for dinner and I told her in detail that I was preparing a nice meal for us. The day of our date I got a text an hour before she was to come over saying she could not make it, but with no reason why. I said Ok, thanks for letting me know. Now its been 4 days since I’ve heard from her. I have resisted trying to contact her or posting anything stupid on FB. I have to admit that I did analyze her last text several times. Is she gone for good? Was I wrong to always being the one initiating the conversations even if I did wait 3 to 4 day between interactions? Did I reveal to much to her when I went into detail about the meal I was going to prepare for her? If I wait long enough will she reach out to me?
Just read the link to “the sickness” or “how to not get over a girl”. I had a similar experience recently. Even experienced all of the same physical symptoms. Had some hot young woman who was a friend. Wasn’t expecting anything but she shows up all the time dressed to the 9s, sits across from me, holding my hands, gazing into my eyes, melts in my arms. I just didn’t want to rush anything, wanted to take my time and build the tension. Not sure what she wanted. Maybe she just wanted me to bang her. Anyway, I was just overwhelmed with emotions. This girl had me swooning. Was going to avoid her for a while and see where it went but I had to contact her about another situation and happened to mention, “enjoyed spending time with you-looking forward to seeing you again,” and got the “not into dating-you’re my friend and I would love to continue hanging out with you.” Should have just said something like, “dating? Are you serious?” but instead confessed that I wasn’t into relationships but just wanted to get close to her. Probably would have been okay but about a week later, I texted her and told her all of the sexually explicit things I wanted to do to her. No response. A week after that, texted back and apologized, told her that I was not sure what she wanted but if she needed me, she’d know where to find me. Even though I’ve been with enough women in my lifetime to not even be able to remember them all, this one really got to me. Can’t figure it out but she just got under my skin. I can completely relate to what you were talking about.
Just read the link to “the sickness” or “how to not get over a girl”. I had a similar experience recently. Even experienced all of the same physical symptoms. Had some hot young woman who was a friend. Wasn’t expecting anything but she shows up all the time dressed to the 9s, sits across from me, holding my hands, gazing into my eyes, melts in my arms. I just didn’t want to rush anything, wanted to take my time and build the tension. Not sure what she wanted. Maybe she just wanted me to bang her. Anyway, I was just overwhelmed with emotions. This girl had me swooning. Was going to avoid her for a while and see where it went but I had to contact her about another situation and happened to mention, “enjoyed spending time with you-looking forward to seeing you again,” and got the “not into dating-you’re my friend and I would love to continue hanging out with you.” Should have just said something like, “dating? Are you serious?” but instead confessed that I wasn’t into relationships but just wanted to get close to her. Probably would have been okay but about a week later, I texted her and told her all of the sexually explicit things I wanted to do to her. No response. A week after that, texted back and apologized, told her that I was not sure what she wanted but if she needed me, she’d know where to find me. Even though I’ve been with enough women in my lifetime to not even be able to remember them all, this one really got to me. Can’t figure it out but she just got under my skin. I can completely relate to what you were talking about.
I won’t chase a woman under any circumstances. Next lesson please.
hey my internet speed suucks and i cant view videos in real time . is there any provision to download videos and watch it afterword
Guys this can only work to a certain extend!!
I was seeing a guy who turns out was playing the ‘game’ – I know because he had to admit this to be as I ended up CUTTING HIM OFF. That’s right, I liked the guy but it got to the point where I thought, why am I wasting my time on someone who can’t give me theirs and is acting like someone I could never trust.
He deliberatly made me think he was seeing other girls, was distant with me, did the whole game play, so I thought – what’s the point, i’m a bit fed up, it’s going nowhere and I feel like i’m wasting my time. He made me want to look for other men.
I’d never want to be with a guy like that, I want someone who can ad value to my life and I can trust, so if they’re not adding, they can move onnnnnnnnn.
My advice – Respect her, if you’ve slept with her don’t revolve your meetings around sex, take her out, show her how fun and interesting you are but DON’T be overly keen or desperate be cool.
A woman will like you for this because you show gentlemen qualities.
Hey Bobby, ,,got a super serious question for you, that goes against the grain! I was dating/ living with this gal for over 10 years,,,then it came off rails couple of years ago. We hung on, but there was nothing left in the relationship, ,,then I started flirting, mainly by txt with her best friend for about 4 months. Then one thing led to another, and she fell for me, I work out of country for a few months at a time, but you continued super hot relationship, ,,yes fell for girl of my dreams, we talked about getting married, kids,,whole 9 yards. Then I split from the ex, and about 3 weeks later, she says we have to cool it for awhile with no contact, because she feels horrible and guilty right now. Seen her about 6 weeks later, had brief talk (it was at a family event- ex was there as well) couple days later talked to her, she said she shouldn’t have gone, she said it was too hard seeing me and she is a mess again. So no contact again, that was 6 weeks ago. I know she loves me by the look in her eyes, and our convo, ,,but she needs time. Is there a way of getting her back, ,,yes I do want to spend the rest of my life with her,,,,she made me feel alive, ,,first time I ever felt that way! And I’m not sitting mopping, have 3 girls I’m playing with lol,,,but I want just this one! Any ideas, help? I can see her at another event in a few weeks, should I go? Talk to her? Just say hi and walk away? Or not even go,.she is in control here, she know it! She knows I want to marry her, but her friendship with my ex,her best friend is the stumbling block! And before you say anything,,,im 50,,,been with over 100 women, could have had more when I was married but stayed faithful 20+ years. If this girl doesn’t come back, ,,,im just gonna be a pig and jump everything that moves! Lol,,,but just want one!!!! Help
H (and everyone else who disagrees),
Sadly, bobby is right. He didn’t design the female brain: things are the way they are. Take it from me. I’m a doctor, one of the best looking in shape guys you can meet, and genuinely a lot of fun and very outgoing. I’m naturally too nice and too easy though. Result: I’ve been murdered on the dating market by chubby unshaven dudes that have nothing going on in their lives.
Unless a women is about 50-60 years old and sick of games (or basically gets no attention from guys), 99% of women ARE THE SAME. I PROMISE…DO NOT LISTEN TO THE NAY SAYERS.
No. Don’t listen to this. Don’t play games. Just take her out to dinner, be nice to her, show a genuine interest in her but do not make your life revolve around her. Do other things and even if you turn her down at least once in a while so she knows you got stuff going on. Don’t lie, don’t pretend to be something you are not. Don’t try silly little tricks. Excercise, make yourself the man you wish you were for gods sake. You holding back your personality will cause her to go because you will seem like a weirdo. Keep an air of mystery and for gods sake, get emotionally stable yourself. Love yourself truely and be a real person with goals, interests and prospects and you will find a good woman. Stop looking for this wife. When you look for her, she will never come. Focus on being the best you that you can be and women will see you for the confident and great man you are.
This person doesn’t initiate like she did earlier, but when I contact her, she is responsive to texts and calls. We have gone out during the week but weekends seem to be off limits. She says she has a boyfriend, and many friends, as well. Our get togethers have to be spontaneous and if she is available.
I am at a point of not initiating.
I havent escalated out of respect for her ‘man’. who she doensnt talk about. Still she hasnt told me to stop.
Its a shame since we connected so well.
What do you think?
that’s good thank you
To the comment above mine – You’re right. A confident woman doesn’t give a rat’s arse about chasing men… Instead, she makes them chase her 😉
Hahahah! I must say, it was lovely reading all these comments from MEN… But unfortunately, this article is true. See, women are attracted to assholes, because they display all the characteristics that trigger attraction in a woman. That’s why “nice guys”, WILL always finish last. Games are fun, but good luck to the men with women who know the ins & outs of the male mind, as well as what men want. 1) Freedom 2) Security 3) Respect. Be very careful. 😉
Best advice I’ve read in forever – I am quickly starting to realise that all girls are the same…
I think this is just about the stupidest article I ever read…. A real woman one who does for herself and is confident in herself does not chase a man…. Play those games with me you get left in the dust… in fact did just that a few days ago lol men think that all women are the same… Play the games that smart mature women are all aware of you are in fact the one who gets left. Don’t be dumb guys you want a real woman not some petty little bitch that’s going to chase you then most likely going to cheat. (As I said petty little bitches like this kind of behavior) You tell that woman you want to see her no don’t text and call her all day… though, do not let days go by without dropping a line because WOMEN take that as a game and or lack of interest and move on to brighter horizons. Just my two cents good luck to the men who play these games and quality of woman they land.
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Hey Bobby, thank you for your helps and encouragement, my case is a little bit different in that am a married man you will understand what am talking about. Going out to get girls is not easy for me though am away from my wife for now due to the kind of work i do, i must confess growing up i did not have much fun when it comes to girls now i realized and i want to make it up is there any ways or method you will recommend, I now lived in Canada migrated from Nigeria 4yrs ago
Thank you
Funny, I’m just getting over the final stages of the sickness after my experience with “The Girl From Hell”. Sweet, gorgeous, funny.. also had awful manners and needed constant male attention. She sucked me in by making me feel like she needed me. I tried to get away a few times and didn’t because I felt bad for her. Eventually, I caved and decided I ACTUALLY wanted to spend the rest of my life with the girl… and then everything crumbled. These girls are WAY more into the game than you could ever realize- and as soon as she held the power she was bored, ready to move on to the next challenge. Now that some time has passed and I’ve recovered, I am able to see this type of personality. Unfortunately, MANY girls behave this way to a certain extent. Thus, you NEVER GIVE UP ON THE GAME. If you do, you’re gonna blow it.
I rest my case. ^^
This advice is whack. All it teaches guys to do is hold back from being themselves. Everyone needs to retain a little mystery, not just the guys. Guys chase girls, not the other way around. This kind of chauvinistic crap is your solution to a situation you don’t really understand. If a girl loses interest because you showed you were interested too soon that’s because you was acting desperate. If you want to wait 4 months before making it exclusive, fine, but don’t be expecting her to sleep with you, because what girl wants to be in a situation where she’s sleeping with a dude who can’t even say for sure if he’s not seeing other girls? That’s just disrespectful.
Better advice would be for a guy to sure – tease a little, don’t give the game away too soon, and instead of concentrating the focus on making her your girlfriend by playing childish games of emotional unavailability, focus on finding out what it is about her exactly that makes her different from the other girls. If you guys are saying “she’s different” less than 3 months in it’s you who are being stupid because it takes a lot longer than that to truly get underneath the skin of a woman and even halfway know all her ways. Don’t be arrogant, and don’t be pathetic. Just be confident with your intention, know what you want, and spend more time listening, less time acting like an awkward arse.
Bobby, you need to write about “The Girl From Hell” – how to spot her and get away.
The girl from hell suffers from narcissistic personality disorder. I met mine Ten years ago. She spotted me at a sports club, She came on like “California dream girl persona”, I drove her home in her little red sports car and fucked the daylights out of her.
What followed was Two years of on and off romance. She was into drugs, women and men, but she kept you wanting more, I even ended up in a hot tub with Five naked women at her house.
I couldn’t work out why I felt bad after romantic dinner or a night out with her, she was capricious, a tease, a flirt, wealthy and looked a million dollars.
After a while I realised she had a problem with substance abuse, she groped my sons girlfriend one night, all her business dealings ended in lawsuits. I watched her ‘recalibrate” herself depending on what men were around. She was dishonest and a total liar. SHe told dirty jokes in places she shouldn’t and behaved badly in restaurants. She had a total lack of empathy.
By chance I had a business problem with somebody diagnosed as a psycopath and I realised that the same symptoms fitted my girlfriend!!!
It took me Two more years to get over this creep and I’ve learned how to spot them most of the time. Be warned – they are out there and the come on as “the girl of your dreams” – which quickly turns into a nightmare when you are hooked.
This guy “steve” in comments over “The SIckness” seems to maybe have found one.
“That was my downfall ….She “had me” & boy did I suffer for letting my guard down .She fucked with my feelings ….Highs & lows …taking the piss in front of others .Trouble was we had booked a holiday ,& I went through with it ….I lasted a day & a half before I went somewhere else to stay ,cos she was flirting with anything in pants right in front of me …..She did light up a room when she walked in “
a very gud lesson so to speak.
Thanks for your course…it has reminded me of what I forgot when I was younger…yea I was a ho…lol…I made things with women fun humorous and exciting…I forgot about that as I got older…simething I havent seen you say yet once you get married you will still use a lot of these things…just ti keep things fun and exciting…it will also let her know that you still are her one and only ….I consider myself fat and ugly and broke….. even when I was younger… so take it from me as personal experience…and bob and rob….yyou guys aren’t Adonis’s either…but you have personality… a fun flirty and humorous one…and that trumps everything else all the time. Again thank you fir reminding me of that simple truth…
Ok, so this girl that I have been an acquaintance with (we met online but never went out-both tied up with others-some time ago) just hit on me in the gym. Stone cold just hit on me and I was super cool. Mainly ’cause I’m jacked now ;), What almost happened then was appalling. I got home, and remembering only her first name, searched her up on FB and almost sent her a “hey how ya doing, good to see you today at the gym” message. Creepy, weird and would blow my whole elusive posture I created today. She even came over to say goodbye. She got a new job an hour away, but I don’t think she’s moving. I’ll see her again, then work it, but would you agree that FB stalking would blow it? I’m a bit needy at the moment and am trying really hard to get the hell over it. I had the sickness for a time, and now that’s starting to reverse and I’m coming out of the fog. thanks for all your great advice!
Hey bobby l was nice guy girl l like l gave het everything she asks and she flirts anothet guys front of me now l stopped talking to her l decided to another grl she knows and l feel sheis jealous
Bobby I wish I read this in January because I fucked up big time with this girl I still can’t get out my head. My question to you is what to do if you’ve ruined things with a girl and you stopped communicating with them for about a month but want to make things right. What do you suggest?
yes, its important not to make those kind of mistakes… read this article:
http://unlockherlegs.com/go/3-seduction-sins/
Hey, this is happening to me right now. Just sent a message to a girl that implied subtly that I loved her. And last night, I sent her a long message that I’m embarrassed about as well. She has a boyfriend, and I want to stop before I message her anything else stupid.
So there’s this girl I met online last friday, who I really like. We haven’t met in person yet, but we cant stop talking online every day. We have a date planned for this coming weekend. I’m a little nervous now because in the course of our talking online we have evolved into “Deep Rapport” mode (which I guess is a good thing), but also talked about almost everything you talk about on the first few dates. I don’t want to screw up and come on too strong like your talking about here and I don’t want to have to be stuck in “conversation lifeboat mode” as you call it. Any tips?
Actually no matter if someone doesn’t know after that its up to other people that they will assist, so here it happens.
The last time something similar happened, I ran out of patience and ended things and moved on. Interests has its expiration date.
I enjoye this, please keep on updating me
hey bobby i didnt get lesson 19 today could you send the email again
Made this mistake.. blew it with an awesome girl. Never again!
This is nice article and I enjoy it thanks Bob, but there is something important Here, Girls are reading and Understanding all these techniques and they create for themselves too, some type of strategies to push men back , and there are also many women are dating coach and are telling girls what to do and how to behave, women have also online forums , they have meeting between themselves in cafe or any other place to discuss how to treat men ,We do not have to think that men are intelligent and girls are not , for me if I chase a girl and after one month or two and if she changed Her beahviour, I do not take it seriously but instead I go and meet another woman , the good news is there are too many good girls in this world and every where.
Silly how your program has changed my outlook on chasing girls.. Now I start the hunt, then let them chase me.. then once I catch them, I move on. Now I’m screwed, I set the bar too high with gorgeous girls and have no interest in anything but 10’s now. Thanks alot, Bobby! You Jerk! LOL
PS.. thanks for the trophy!
Rather than calling it a game and relating it to PUA look at this from reality. I for one have only been able to keep women interested that I am not really interested in, why, because I never give them all of me, the moment I give all of me they want out or start to manipulate me so they can get things. This happened with my first and second wife. If we have high status and good self-esteem we don’t need to play games because we will be interesting and mysterious just living our lives. Women should be a beautiful addition to our lives not our lives.
Just wanna say the stuff I’ve learned from Bobby is way more valuable than shit taught by many other pick-up artists out there who are clearly interested in your money and your money only. bobby’s work is almost like he’s sharing what he knows as a result of self fulfilment because he also loves and enjoys what he does for a living,and charging money only to those who want become actual experts on picking up women.(doctors who love their job and helping people don’t work for free and no one does )I don’t mind spending my money in something is worth much more than what I’m paying.Respect to you Bobby.Btw:I’m from Spain,u’re absolutely right about spanish girls,the hardest to get but after all women and yes,your techniques work on them 😉
Thanks for all this advices am really learning many things, i send a message to a girl the other day.. that she’s not my type of girl,she told me am the first guy to ever tell her that,and i unfriend her on face book, because she’s having my number, she is texting me evryday.
Bobby your tactics are working well for me.i appreciate it.
My question is haw can i tolk to a girl haw i feel aboute her on my first mite with her and whate can i do to let her know i want to be friend
When i started realizing they are all the same, i had more success, Thanks for cracking all of the codes Bobby, its a real help
there this girl.but whenever i start talking to her.this feeling of she is young and innocent,don’t play her always wash over me.
all i can say is i’m learning from the expert.
This makes so much sense. Since reading all of this I learned why I fucked up all my relationships and didn’t get pussy I shoulda got no prob. This is unbelievable. Thanks Bobby. I know Ima start poundin more pussy than ever b4.
This makes a lot of sense, but I’m wondering whether you have any thoughts on LSE girls who tend to feel rejected if you play and get insecure when they can’t figure you out. Any advice, other than “stay away from them”? 😉 They can be very cute at times …
I find this very very difficult – to feign indifference, to hide my desperate interest/attraction for her. Even just on approaching women, the first and only things that come to mind are Mr Nice Guy guy stuff, praising her, complimenting her.., I cant help it! My mind goes blank and I forget every thing I have learnt, and I just resort to worshiping her like a goddess… How do I control this automatic-pilot urge to compliment women like this?
Yeh totally! I had a ‘relationship’ with a woman for over the course of 5 years, and ALL she was interested in was game!! She was ADDICTED to the chase – self-acknowledged! She was somehow very clued up about the whole thing, very intuitive and intelligent, instinctively knowing all the psychological tricks involved. At this time I was pretty naive in all senses, and I was the one that was being gamed by her, and got totally confused and manipulated in a roller-coaster ride where I never even got to have sex with her! Initially I wasnt interested in her at all.., oh but she got her way, she stalked me, she played me on every emotional and then sexual level, until I was gagging for it…, and the very moment that I was hooked, when my interest in her was undeniable and desperate…, she completely lost interest and made ME out to be the stalker!!!
Dude,
I LOVE YOU! (No homo)
I was always really good with girls, from prior training, fell off the horse, and this is enough for me to get it back. But this lesson was new. Yeah, I already KNEW it, but I wasn’t actively aware of it. Damn your good.
Bola,
Answer to Q2—Is she using you in class?
Lars
Elimo,
The PUA community gives you the tools based on the way things are, NOT on the way you would like them to be. You will find this out the hard way!!!
Lars
My question is how do you get your ex-girlfriend to fall in love with you again even tho both of you don’t get to see each other for awhile..
second question .. I have a girl that i think she Loves me but she wont admit that she’s in love with me or like me .. she ‘s always looking at me . and getting on my business during class time, but she wont talk me or say Hi to me outside the campus.why
im in a happy relationship with a girl i love… and so are a lot of dating coaches that I know…. I think guys like Mystery are the exception… and not the rule.
Also, games need to be played… and are how you keep a relationship healthy and happy… its ultimately what the girl wants. remember, girls love drama… just look at the types of television shows and movies they watch
Isn’t it sick that the PUA community pushes men into forming relationships with minimal commitment and little long-term prospects? Can any of you imagine Mystery marrying? Doesn’t it feel, deep down, like there’s something wrong with manipulating the hell out of women for sex?
Thing is, all of this is invented for the lame kids at high school who never developed their sexuality normally. You might end up getting sex, but will this advice lead to a deeply fulfilling relationship? I seriously doubt it.
How well I know. I got the sickness, for the 2nd time recently. It doesn’t happen with every woman. It’s usually rare for just about any guy. I guess you could say I’m still working out the kinks. Re-hashing your website helps a bit. But, you’re right, only time will cure this one.
Thanks!
I make that mistake all the time. Start thinking “she’s different” blah blah blah… and BAM! it’s over.