Day #10: Become the “High Status” Guy She Chases
I was at “Happy Hour” the other day with a friend.
Let’s call him “Ed”… don’t want to embarrass him by using his real name.
So Ed spots a girl. Thinks she’s giving him the eye.
Cute girl. Redhair. Creamy white skin. Slanky body.
Ed’s been out of the game a bit. Been awhile since he been laid.
Confidence is pretty low.
I understand. I been there.
That feeling like ‘why even bother?’
That feeling of hopelessness.
I lived with it for a long time. I don’t miss it.
So I felt for him.
…Ed has to piss. Has to walk past the slanky redhead to get to the bathroom.
On the way to the bathroom she sticks out her legs sort of gets in his way.
That’s Flirting 101
She was inviting him to talk to her.
Ed kept walking. Must have had to piss real bad I guess.
He comes back and sits down next to me.
I say “That girls wanted you to talk to her. Stuck her legs out to get your attention.”
Ed says, “I know.”
I say “You need a good opening line… I got a few?”
Ed says, “Nah… I thought, what’s the point. She bites. Then what? A hot girl like her. She ain’t gonna be interested in me. I got nothing to offer her.”
See what Ed said to me… is what a lot of guys think. Even if they don’t admit it. Even to themselves.
They think “Why would a hot girl want me?”
And then thoughts go through their minds:
– I ain’t rich.
– I ain’t good looking
– I ain’t super popular
– I ain’t done too much cool shit to talk about with her.
– I ain’t never been with a woman that hot, so there must be a reason.
I’m gonna tell you something.
This might be one of the most important things you ever hear.
So pay attention:
Your “value” in the eyes of a woman doesn’t come down to how much money you make. Or how handsome you are. Or how big your dick is.
There’s a lot of rich handsome, big dicked guys that will agree with me…
Just take a look around a strip bar. A lot of rich good looking guys handed out $100s just to get some girl to give them affection.
No. Value is based on something entirely different.
Write this down.
Tape it to your refrigerator.
“Your value is defined by what you bring into the moment she is experiencing”
Let that sink in for a bit.
There are 3 things that define your value. These 3 things make all the difference.
Tomorrow you get the specifics.
Today I need that drilled into your mind.
Get ready!
Bobby Rio
P.S. Below is PDF (Small Talk Tactics report). I need you to read it. If you already read it. Read it again.
Tomorrow we get into flirting. This PDF will set the ground work for what we are going to cover.
Seriously. Read it. Read it twice.
P.P.S. Due to high demand I released a Kindle version for easy reading on the Kindle. (Get the Kindle version)
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hola bobby oye me darias un consejo para tener mas sexo mucho mas seguido, e estado practicando tu ebook “Ass sexy una charla corta” como unas 10 veces y solo 2 me han fallado. tardo 2 semanas en acostarme con ellas, uso el libro de mensajes macneticos y e aprendido demasiado pero me gustaria llevarlas a la cama en una sola noche… gracias gracias
Hey Bobby,I read the small talk report and I decided to use it on this girl I work with that I’ve been talking to a little bit. I noticed we say hi and ask each other how we are doing and it was the same old boring “I’m good” answer and walk off. So the day after I read the report, I walked up to her and asked the same question. She says “I’m okay, how’s your day going” I said “I know what would make it better…” She says, in the same boring tone “what’s that” then I said “it’s harassment, I can’t say it” she blushed. Her face went bright red. Then she was behind me and said “move your ass” so I got in her way and said “oh yeah you want me out of the way? Is this better?” She got all giggley playing the little school yard game. Now I’m just wondering if I should say another sexual comment next time we get stuck in the “how are you” thing or what I should do next to escalate. Also was wondering if that’s a little quick to get sexual or not. It seemed to be a pretty positive response to me, and we have talked for awhile with none of that i described above. I am also a little nervous about sexual harrassment, since it’s at work.
Bobby, in the “Small Talk Tactics Report”, you mentioned roles that help create attraction. I’m not familiar with most of these roles, and I tried researching them. Could you help me understand these roles, or where can I learn more about them?
I subscribed and have not had a chance to read. I had saved all communications. My computer now has trashed days one thru nine. How can I get days one thru nine.
Gotta say that this program has taken my dating to another level. I meet prospective chicks and although I haven’t made moves on them, I am planting seeds.
I have been focusing mainly on exuding alpha energy–handling my business and being a master of my craft.
When an opportunity presents itself, I naturally make jokes. And I focus on her “ideal” self. That in itself is a game changer. Sex conversation comes as a fun afterthought. I can’t believe how powerful this is.
Is there ever a time to intentionally put a girl in the friendzone? I intentionally put my ex of 7 years in the friendzone after she broke with me and she is like “I don’t think either of us is ready for that yet and I don’t think I can just be friends.” I just ambiguously said “understand,” and now am dating other girls and livin it up while she is still recovering. Hey man is this stupid and am I just ending any and all chance of ever having this girl again?
Hey Bob,
I was out yesterday with my friend on the street. This girl comes from the other side with her friend. she was probably drunk, but right before crossing us, she stopped her friend and asked something rubbish to her. when we walked past, they started walking their way. did it mean she wanted us to talk to her?
Bobby how quickly or slowly must a high status guy start injecting fun, emotional connection, and sexual tension into any conversation or interaction with any woman or any women he desires?
I haven’t got laid since Dec. 28, 2007. Can I tell that to woman? Would she want to sleep with me , if I tell her that?
some really good stuff bobby !… man you sure this is all still free .?…great buddy…….. appreciate it man thanks…..
take care larry
Grab the the other guy and tell him:
“On this cruise ship – I am the captain! – capito!”
If there is still any question,
than you have to kick ass…
SEDUCE and DESTROY!
1-877-TAME-HER
“I am the one who’s in charge!
“I am the one who says, ‘Yes!’ ‘No!’ ‘Now!’ ‘Here!”
Hahaha…
Who knew Tom Cruise was right 😉
What if someone is trying to make a move on your girlfriend?
Do you let her go?
I’m not used to this but some guy is trying to put the moves on my girlfriend, now she’s confused.
Don’t get me wrong our sex is off the charts and she knows that but this guy sounds like he’s read one or two books and is pulling her in.
Do I dump?
Or how do I fight back?(without breaking bones)
Thanks
thanks
awesome to hear man!
Ah! Finally, I understand what’s wrong with “being the nice guy”, what the friendzone is all about and why it’s uncrossable… I’ve always been OK with chatting up women and making friends with them, used to pride myself on it until I realized it never gets me anywhere. Now I know why, crystal clear, after reading the PDF (it’s on page 9 for a shortcut.) Thank you thank you!
im loving it
If he’s close to 18 its ok. However, i don’t like having guys too young on my email list, because sometimes I get letters from angry parents.
Hi, I read a lot of your material, but i have a friend who could use some help… Is it a problem to use your material if he is under 18?
what are the reasons?
An answer would be really appreciated!
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thanks
gr8 stuff ,i used some of your tactics, but what to do when
a girl talks about her ex-b.f, what to say…
Kindle version link working now 🙂
Every time I try to get the kindle version I get 404’d (dude). Any other way I can get? Also, small tactics report = very inspired stuff
hi bobby
ur stuff is too good to belive but i had experience of all these but unknowingly now i know all theae that were i had done mistake.
continue ur job.as it only helps others.
Bobby,
I tried some of the tactics you mentioned today. By using these tactics i was able to leave my comfort zone and asked this girl out. She didn’t say yes but she didn’t say no either. Either way i felt that i had a wonderful breakthrough today. I will keep refining what i am doing and hopefully she will say yes soon.
This has been hard getting back on the dating scene again after being married for 12 years (now divorced) and this helping get back in the game.
bobby ur stuff is great, what women think is true had some personal experiences the past few days, its all about wat u say that really gets them hooked on u, had success already, and some failures, true stuff good looks and confidence only gets u so far, gotta know wat to say.
for a while i thought,high position gets the girls
i bliev dats tru man.a hot girl is currently trying so hard to impress me coz she tinks im mature and i knw my work…nw she answers unnecesary questions with no sense in her explanation and her 4rend doz da same.il pay attention to her 4rend js to make tings smoother 4 myslf tanx man ur tips giv me a bigger picture of attracting women
Practicing on girl’s you’re not interested in is great. It is low pressure, and allows you to really hone your skils. go for it.
Hey Bobby,
Great stuff – thanks for all your time, effort and passion putting this together. One quick question on Small Talk though; it’s obviously important to start practicing everything as soon as possible; however, what about on girls who are interested in you but you’d still be ‘punching below your weight’? i.e. The other day noticed a girl at the gym checking me out but she was only average and wouldn’t be someone I’d date. Is this an opportunity to practise or should I just focus on chicks I actually want to be talking too?
badas man! u ‘re just good man! iwish 4 myself heaven & earth 2 stick around u coz am just in the same shit! it’s ma pleasure that I plotted u & my prayer that things gonna work as i expoze my machadise..
Yeah my friend just started dating the chick I really like, so hopefully this program can change that.
@ ankur Its means be less cocky… and more funny.
There is a lesson on Day 12 that talks about exactly what you are experiencing.
I am doing what u have told to do. on a constant basis and the result is
a very hot chick on facebook says
Ankur you are very arrogent in your comments.
and the guys arround her says “Ankur is a DICK if you ask me.”
how is the progress
Hey Bobby
in my office there are a lot of hot chicks, is it ok to use all the sexy stuff in that environment and specially if this thing is with indian women. who are reserved a diff mind set about sexy talking, and carrying a lot of attitude more then usual.
Bobby,
I tried to download the The small talk tactics report but nothing happened. I tried the links on both day 10 and again on day 11 with the same results, nothing. I do have Adobe acrobat on my computer. Please help
yes boss, u re right
does watching and masterbating to porn a lot fucks up your game with women
mmm I think I alredy hear about this in one of your videos… but yeah, damn good stuff anyway!
hey bobby, had to restart the whole 30 day thing cos ended up 7 days without a computer :S
doing em 1 lesson/day, as if you just sent them to me, hope im doing it right:S
just read this one today, and gotta be honest i was completely clueless when it came to role playing ( like “becoming” the confident playboy/ high maintanance woman/ her devil etc.)
also, is it possible to mix more than one , like role play say, both the high maintanance women at times, and the over confident playboy at others?
looking forward to hearing from ye 🙂
N.B.
Haha thanks! i was considering that possibility. but great stuff keep dong your thing!
yep this stuff works on high school girls.. however, becareful with some of the more sexual stuff… some girls in high school aren’t mature enough to understand it.
dear , Rio
I’m a High School student can i use this same advice in 30 days to better women to achieve similar results?
p.s an answer here or email would be appreciated if you could ! 🙂
p.p.s i used to be good with women in the 6th grade but then alot of traumatic events happened and i sort of just “lost it” so here i am in the 11th grade (18) and hope less! any advice on that also?
Good info, Bobby…being out of the game for 16 years(marriage) and turning 40 last week, it really does shake one’s confidence. I’ve been using dating sites for the last couple months, but it is hard to get your personality to shine through, and women don’t have to respond to you. They can just ignore your advances. I get dates and the occasional lay, but I need to learn how to step up my game out in the “real” world. Should I stay away from dating sites all together?
Tactics are coming tomorrow.. But definitely read the Small Talk Tactics report.
Man, I’ve been where Ed is. It’s not fun at all. Can’t wait to get into some tactics to make overcoming this kind of stuff easier.