Day #20: How to Use “Facebook” to Meet Girls

For the past few days we’ve been talking about “the game.”

And how to win it.

Yesterday you learned how mix “texting” in there to get a woman’s mind thinking of you.

Social media & social networking sites can serve the same purpose.

For the purpose of this lesson I’m going to say “Facebook”, but it can be Instagram, Snapchat, whatever….

See most guys think “how can I meet girls off of Facebook?”

That’s hard.

Most girls are on Facebook/Instagram to keep in touch with people they ALREADY know.

Remember on Day 9 I gave you a list of some of my favorite places to meet girls. I also had you make a list of some “easy” places you can go.

This is where Facebook holds the power.

Let me explain.

The last few girls I’ve dated I’ve used Facebook as a way to facilitate the process.

Here’s what I mean by that.

I meet girl out at (party, networking event, class, work.) We flirt, have fun, and then say our goodbyes for the night.

I find her on Facebook.

I keep in touch.

Months later we have sex.

Here is the beauty of this system. You can be working multiple girls on Facebook at once.

There is a cold hard fact you need to accept as a guy:

NO BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IS EVER COMPLETELY SINGLE.

Accept this, and a world of opportunity opens for you.

See, a lot of these girls I met out at these parties, classes, and events had guys in their life. Which made them hard to get out on a date right away.

Most guys think ‘she doesn’t want to hang out, she must not like me’

That might not be the case.

There just might be another guy who is in front of her more often that is occupying her time. (even if she doesn’t call him her BF)

This is where Facebook comes in.

Facebook let me keep in touch. Build value. And make myself “sticky” in her mind.

And when the moment was right. I weaseled my way right into her panties 🙂

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The Hooters by me as a “trivia” night every Monday. A few of my friends became regulars there. Befriended the manager. Befriended the waitresses. I kept in touch with all of them on Facebook. I have Halloween Party this year. The party is packed with hot Hooters girls. Thank You Facebook.
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Remember I told you my friend Rob Judge was amazing with texts. He is equally amazing at using social networking sites to pull girls.

We decided to create a video for you. In this video we go much more in depth about how to use Facebook and other sites to meet girls.

The “Gaslighting Technique”

Now, your profile is SUPER important.

Especially your pictures. (they tell a thousand words)

What I recommend is that you have a female friend help you choose the pics you feature.

You might think that picture of you dressed as a wizard at the Renaissance Fair is cool.. but girls probably don’t.

Let a girl help you. It makes it EASIER.

It’s all explained in the video:

Make it happen!

Bobby Rio

 

 

 

 

P.S. During the lesson on “Crowd Control” I promised a “Sneaky” Facebook trick.

It’s actually quite simple. Post videos, clips, quotes, that girls are likely to “Like.”

The way Facebook’s algorithm works is that the profiles you interact with are displayed the most in your news feed.

So once you get a girl to “like” a few things you wrote. Your updates will be displayed in her feed. Keeping you in front of her without having to continually message her.

And employ the “Gaslighting Technique” that Rob and I outlined above.

Previous Lesson: Day 19


{ 20 comments… read them below or add one }

B D January 19, 2017 at 3:27 am

The issue was how to get girls off FB since you won’t cross paths with them unless you get them interested. The method discussed–‘friend’ girls you already know. WTF This article could have been ‘this’ long.

Tony Scarpone June 19, 2016 at 12:01 am

Dude, please proofread your text. Your crappy grammar makes you look like a high school dropout. But I guess the hairdressers and grocery store baggers you meet on Fakebook probably don’t know any better either.
Yeah, I meant Fakebook.

yesroh April 23, 2016 at 5:04 am

match.com is the worst site I’ve ever been on–full of tramps too

John Hunter October 7, 2015 at 1:15 am

I love my Facebook Page! Plenty of opportunities for turning Friends into Friends with Benefits.

Austin June 19, 2014 at 6:07 pm

Does Race’s system work with girls of all age groups? I’m 30 and desire to only date 18-19 year olds… yet the older I get the harder it seems to get attraction from them. On Plenty of Fish I can’t even message them! POF now has this stupid block feature that says, “so-and-so only accepts messages from certain users,” so Race’s system would be useless to me on POF.

HERMINE May 13, 2013 at 8:19 am

i SEE THAT GIRL EVERY WEEKDAY AT 18H IN THE BUS COMMING FROM WORK OR STUDIES TOGEAETHER WITH GIRLMATES.WAT COULD BE BETTER
TO HANDEL HER A NOTE IN HER HAND,OR TO TOLK DIRECTLY TO HER .
CORDIALY ,HERMINE……

Alex May 13, 2013 at 5:02 am

^ Same issue as Mark above

Mark November 29, 2012 at 2:11 am

Hey Bobby,

The link to Race’s site does not work, do you have a updated link?\

Thanks!

Gaetano November 15, 2012 at 5:32 am

it is true .we must love to make friends

Chad April 18, 2012 at 6:12 pm

Hey Bobby,
Great content as always and much appreciated. Quick question…I know I want to have a good picture as my profile picture but what about other pictures on my Facebook. Should I completely remove one’s that might be considered lame?

abebe April 17, 2012 at 12:21 pm

u are aperciable! u teach me about how i get girl friend. tanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ryan March 29, 2012 at 6:01 pm

hey bobby, was wondering if there’s a girl in my school I’ve never talked to before is it OK to add her on Facebook? if not, how do I try to start a conversation with her if I only see her hanging around. Kind of a stupid question but just wanted to be sure, thanks,

Ryan

Jan January 13, 2012 at 8:02 pm

Hey bobby,

I have this one concern, there’s this online dating site called okcupid.com and I was wondering how can I write a first email to a girl that will catch her attention and make her want to reply back. I’ve tried many different ways but none of them work, either she completely ignores me or tells me she’s not interested. Your help is appreciated

John

Richard September 30, 2011 at 1:49 pm

Pose a little challenge and a little appreciation to her. Tell her to make up her mind, since she found a real guy in you. First you be confident that you are a bit more better to her than other men.

Richard September 30, 2011 at 1:43 pm

Steve if you were not boasting could you please you explain what (idea or words) ticked the girls to turn up at your place?
Thanks friend,
Regards
Richard

Vahan September 24, 2011 at 5:30 pm

Dear Bobby Rio you have great ideas do you have any programs what to say Torontoian Canadien girls mostly immigrants from Asian countries.Im trying to send text or email I’m not getting response at all I’m not a night club or strip club guy only place I have Internet and dating clubs let me know what to write do you have any programs ?
Here’s sampe what one Asian girl tells me.
I need to get married ASAP cause I have to prove my family that I am normal enough to get married. It will make them happy and they will stop bother me also. You don’t even have to love me. Guess if you were a single guy, that would be enough. Oh I can’t stand fat guys i have to admit. I have to be honest here also. I have been severely depressed and bi polar for so many years and avoid the human contact. That’s why I have been staying at this retarded site it’s only because it’s free and guys here are more losery than myself so i feel bit better after talking to stupid guys here

What would you say to this person

Thanks in advance

Vahan

stephen September 3, 2011 at 6:28 pm

Hi bobby

this info is great its really helpfull!
theres a girl I like and im pretty sure she likes me however when we are chatting in a crowd she keeps mentioning her ex and sometimes looks to see my reaction
why is this?
should I make a move?

steve July 25, 2011 at 3:57 pm

bobby is a god im on day 20 and have been laid by 3 diff smokin hot chicks in less than 3 weeks lmao last night was priceless i had a chick back to the motel we both knew i was allready in her panties.. her ex kept text fucking her tryin to get her back.. after i got done fucking the hell out of her he did it again i started laughing she asked whats up ? i told her maybe i should have a chat with him about day 19….then i exsplained how i got her in the bed by a simple text she called me a asshole gave me a blow job and fucked me again THANKS BOBBY

ruwan July 11, 2011 at 2:10 pm

Love to make friends.Anybody pls reply,Thanks

Jason G June 17, 2011 at 7:45 pm

Very true about good looking women not being really single. Never thought about it in those terms though.