Why Beautiful Women Are Insecure

For starters take them off of their goddamn pedestal. I?m not saying be mean to anyone, I?m just saying to start viewing them as they actually view themselves. If acting indifferent toward a woman ever caused her to react positively toward you, it wasn?t because she held herself in such high regard that she had to be taken down a few pegs, in fact it?s actually just the opposite.

If this is what you want, congratulations, you?ve just discovered how to attract insecure women – but what does that say about the standards you have for yourself?

What I recommend is treating everyone the same. You should treat the most beautiful woman you?ve ever seen in the same way as the old lady at the bus stop. If you?re not particularly friendly to the old lady at the bus stop then that?s your first assignment.

Then you give them a chance – see how they respond. If they react coldly, then you know that they?re feeling pretty uncomfortable with themselves and now you know why. Remember, this usually has nothing to do with anything you did or didn?t do. In fact, you probably react the exact same way to people whenever you?re feeling uncomfortable. Also remember, the more beautiful the women, the more likely she is to suffer? from this insecurity – this lack of comfort.

Now, as I said there are exceptions to every rule. There are millions of beautiful women out there who, despite the disadvantages they?ve faced have grown up to be confident and warm. You can relate: when you?re feeling comfortable you generally react warmly to others.

It is in these scenarios, when a woman is feeling comfortable expressing who she really is, her personality then you can now show interest without raising her walls. She?ll still be able to smell bullshit – guys who are just trying to use her for her ?asset? a mile a way, but if you take the time and allow her to express her personality, and then compliment and open yourself up in response to show that you?re not insecure either, then you?ve got something that in today?s day and age is unfortunately not all that common to come by.

By realizing that underneath the pretty face is someone exactly like you, someone who has had all of the same experiences, thoughts, emotions, fears, insecurities, doubts, and happiness we take our first steps to truly connecting with that human being. The only walls that exist between the sexes are walls that we create. Unfortunately, nowadays it seems that these walls are the norm instead of the exception. By being a man who breaks them down, however, you will shine like light in a sea of darkness.

And women love shiny things.