Unleash the Power of Goal-Setting (W/Goal Setting Workshop)

Goal Setting Workshop

A huge part of inner game is having a clear focus about where you want to go in life. A major source of our confidence is the attainment of goals that we have set for ourselves. These goals give our lives direction, meaning, and purpose.

These goals give us clear picture of what we want and enable us to create exciting pictures of our future. Do you schedule time regularly to think about your better future?

A goal is the ongoing pursuit of a worthy objective until accomplished

This means that this achieving your goals is a process. This process will take you through plenty of hurdles and obstacles. If your goal is worthwhile, you will endure these tough times, and do whatever it takes to reach the completion of your goal.

Setting and achieving goals is one of the best ways to measure your life’s progress and create unusual clarity.

Canfield lays out a good checklist for your Top 10 Goals:

1. Your most important goals must be yours.
2. Your goals must be meaningful.
3. Your goals must be specific and measurable.
4. Your goals must flexible.
5. Your goals must be challenging and exciting.
6. Your goals must be in alignment with your values.
7. Your goals must be well balanced.
8. Your goals must be realistic.
9. Your goals must include contribution.
10. Your goals need to be supported.

If your quest is to get better with women it is crucially important that you continue building all areas of your life. You will find that the accomplishment of each of these individual goals will have synergy with one another and ultimately lead to a feeling of much greater self confidence.

Dating Goals

That being said, it is also equally important to set goals for yourself in relation to women. You need to know where you stand now, and exactly where you want to stand six months from now. What do you want this area of your life to look like? This is critically important. Do you want to be sleeping with a new girl every night? Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want several girlfriends? Do you just want to be going on some dates? WHAT DO YOU WANT?

I stress that last question because many of us fall into the trap of thinking we want something just because that is what everybody else says they want. One of the biggest reasons I find most guys fail in this area of their life is because their actions are not congruent with their desires.

What does this mean?

It means that many guys, who’ve never even had a girlfriend, read a book like "The Game” and decide that they want to be pickup artists. Most of these guys get caught up in the emotion of the book and never stop to think if that is what they really want. Because what most of these guys actually want is a girlfriend that they can get closes to, and feel a real connection with.

What do you want?  If you don’t know… you’re going to keep running yourself in circles.

The object of this workshop is to create 10 meaningful goals for you.   You should follow the guidelines discussed above.

These goals should encompass all areas of your life.  There should also be a goal for where you want to be in terms of your dating/relationship area.

These goals should be as specific as possible.

Take the time RIGHT NOW to make a list of your top 10 goals.

DO IT!

Create a GoalsBook

I mentioned earlier that the most success I’ve ever witnessed from goal setting came to me when I created a goal book. It is as easy as buying a three ring binder, a scrapbook, or journal. Then create a page for each goal. In my book I wrote down a specific description of the goal, the obstacles I would face in achieving my goal, why I knew I could accomplish it, and a list of the benefits of reaching its achievement. I then filled the book with pictures, words, and phrases I cut out of magazines.

Each night, spend at least 15 minutes reviewing your goal book. I also recommend reviewing your goal book for 15 minutes upon waking in the morning.

Before you move on to the next principle I outline for you, I highly suggest spending the time to make a list of goals you want to accomplish. Make sure you have measurable (how much, by when) goals for every aspect of your vision.

If you’re still having trouble creating goals… I highly recommend Brian Tracy’s Ultimate Goals Program.  I can’t say how much it helped me during a point in my life where I was running in circles without any sort of idea where I was headed.